I'll choose 6 @ humanearl, there's nothing wrong about staying with your parents because I too and my husband still staying with our parents together with our kids, because what matters most specially with your situation right now is to be with them because they are your greatest strength who support you during tough times, since you said that your wife has no passion on business she might get a job to earn and save money and also you're not fully recovered yet, so you can do full time blogging on steemit and dtube while being together with your little angel and earning at the same time and when you have enough then thats the time you decide for your van. I'm always look forward to your blogs because it inspires me thank you for sharing @humanearl, Godbless you and your family