This is the @ecotrain question of this week, so I thought I wanted to write a few words about this topic and answer the question.

You cant lose love, but you can lose people. That is a great difference. The love we experience for someone is not coming from the outside but from the inside. You cant lose love because you ARE love. We can get confused and believe that there is no love for us, but we have just forgotten that the love we are looking for, has been there the whole time, and still is. It is very painful to lose someone we love, but not because we lose the love, but because we miss their presence and the being.

And do we have a choice who we want to love,

many times no, love is a force, but sometimes yes, we can choose to love someone and deepen that love with time. Love is a very width statement, a romantic love is different from the love we have for our children, and most of what we call love is a conditioned love that changes depending on the situation and mindset. Unconditional love is rare. We all experience it for some moments in our life, but not many of us keep it strong through time and situations.

Conditional love is based on expectations and disappointment.

When we expect but the person we want to fulfill our expectation doesn't do it, we get disappointed. But this is not about the other person, it is only about your mindset, your expectations and what goes with it.

But I believe we have to experience the pain that goes with unfulfilled expectations and that kind of conditioned love before you understand that we are love, and can love unconditioned without the fear of losing. Many of us experience this pain at this very moment of time, and that for a reason. We are developing rapidly as human beings, and in order to reach the next level of consciousness, we need to let go of the old. That hurts until we realize, we have created that pain for yourself through or mindset and beliefs.

So lets love, get lost, find, be hurt, love again, and over and over find our self. The core of our being, is love.

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Why Love?

When we go, we are home,
our love in heart is a bursting thing,
never get lost, only behind a diffuser
take risks, what is there to lose anyway?
What we call love is a piece of paper we hold infront the burning sun. That sun is you.
Love is endless, and limited, we are the one who decide.
We are born to recreate the love we are come from, that is why we
discover pain, to peel of the layers of belives.
Get lost, you are home.

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