Don't be silly, she just doesn't love you.

The most foolish thing in a relationship is to use your passion to warm someone's cold heart. Her lack of love is never hidden; all her indifference and perfunctory attitudes are the most straightforward answer.

Some men get stuck in a rut in relationships, believing that as long as they are persistent and attentive enough, even if the other person doesn't feel anything at first, they will eventually be warmed up. But reality is never a romantic drama. To someone who doesn't love you, all your deep affection isn't seen as touching, but as cheap intrusion, or even a burden you desperately want to avoid. Instead of humbly enduring a relationship that's unequal, it's better to face reality sooner rather than later. Stop deceiving yourself. Whether someone loves you or not is immediately apparent from their attitude towards your messages.

In relationships, the worst thing is self-deception. To someone who doesn't love you, no matter how much you give, you can't warm their heart. Instead of lowering yourself to humbly please them, it's better to turn away gracefully and cut your losses. Don't exhaust yourself, both physically and mentally, for someone who doesn't care about you. Don't waste your time and energy on someone who doesn't appreciate you. Instead, focus your attention on loving yourself. Go to the gym, earn money, and improve yourself. Become a better version of yourself. As you become better, you'll naturally attract like-minded people and meet someone who truly cherishes you and sees you for who you are.

Remember, love is never a one-person show; it's a two-way journey. A relationship initiated by only one person can't sustain a long-term future. If she doesn't love you, she simply doesn't—there are no excuses, and you shouldn't try to find reasons for her. Stop being foolish and clinging to someone who doesn't love you. Cut your losses; it's the best thing you can do for yourself. Before loving others, learn to love yourself first. This is the clarity and dignity that adults should have in relationships.