@fitinfun That is a sad sad story, I am so sorry your so-called friends treated you this way. If I had known you I would have been your friend then and still would be your friend. I have heavy friends and one had lost a lot of weight she is now as thin as I am, which is to thin, she is still my friend. The weight does not make a person, it is what is inside of them. As looking at yourself in the mirror That did not bother me at all until I had cataract surgery, the day I had it I came home and when I saw my reflection I screamed to my husband, who the hell is this old lady looking back at me.