especially singles ngenes

many people (especially singles ngenes) feel their life will be happy if they have a beautiful / handsome boyfriend / couple, even though in fact courts do not really affect the happiness of our lives, yet there are still many happy singles out there even though they have been years alone, happens when we focus too much on a goal (illusion of focus), does not mean money / love / a goal is not important but it is not as important as we imagine.