Don’t Compromise Yourself. You Are All You’ve Got, Little Blue Daddy's Girls! Inspired By The One And Only Janis Joplin

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"You are a beautiful, strong, young woman and a great example, truly an inspiration for many women, way beyond the clouds" - My fathers words 

Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. There is no yesterday, no tomorrow, it’s all the same day. – Janis Joplin

I wrote those words to @tolarnee, a poet, the well deserved winner I chose for the third weeks contest, initiated by @steem-lagos, Now the ENTRY OPENED FOR THE 4TH WEEK 

I wanted to post the whole poem but chose only a couple of lines. 

I was moved when I read it. Click the link and read on! 

That Feminist!!! I am that feminist that doesn't seek the degradation of men to uplift women.I am that feminist that doesn't see all men as dogs just to make women feel better. I am that feminist that doesn't want women as queens and men as slaves. I am the feminist that sees all human beings as equal regardless of gender.......

This song and words, my poem below, came in my mind...... 

Tomorrow is my birthday and its been one year that I left and chose a new life, ended a 16 years long relationship, a beautiful and exciting friendship for over 12 years but toxic for the past four years. I had no strength to get up and go earlier. 

My father died on my birth date........

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So, September 20th will be a triple celebration day of " LIFE" and also Death. 

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Daddy's girl

All girls fall in love with their fathers first. 

I hope for you that he is a good man! 

Should men be "stronger" than us? 

Did you get lost in your first love?

Faces of their fathers and brothers are mirrored in all steps they make. 

You might be one of the lucky ones who had a great father like me. 

I believe in good men because of him.

Let today be a lovely day filled with love and forgivness 

Oh Wonder!

Marvelous phenomena! 

Small miracles!

Inexplicable joys! 

Beguiling ephemera! 

Changes that inspire a quiet awe! 

Intense and eccentric enchantments!

Unplanned jubilations and sudden deliverance from boring evils.........

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I am truly so sorry if your father was a " BASTARD" and NOT there for YOU!

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This got to me because I was a daddy's girl not until I lost him or maybe I still am. It still hurt me till today. But I find strenght knowing that he loved me so much. I guess you will always be your daddy's girl. He could have chosen to go any other day but he left on your birthday so that you will never forget him. You are special to him always and he always want to be remembered by you because you will always be his little girl. Happy birthday soon.

That one touching post and comment.

Happy Birthday @mammasitta!

Thats so sweet of you! Thank you for those wishes I appreciate very much! @teamsteem

You make me cry..........

Ohhh good singing....

Janis is a legend !!!

It is one step to know when something is not good, it is yet another step to leave toxic environments. That requires great courage! I'm happy you are that string woman who managed to do so. With your birthday coming up tomorrow, I truly hope many things will turn into the right directions for you!

step and step and another step and so on :)

Little steps are good :)


"Father Of Day, Father Of Night" - Manfred Mann's Earth Band (1973)

OMG OMG OMG Thats one of my teenage favourite songs ever and I forgot all about it ! Thank you so so so much @gtg This touched me deeply

Happy birthday. "You live in love and pain" one of the lines of truth in music. I have always enjoyed this song by Alice Cooper: Only Women Bleed.

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A celebration of Life, and Death. The cycle returns without one there is no other. We are born in pain, we live in pain, we die in pain. But that is not all we are or do. We give birth joyfully, we live in joy and happiness, we pass to our next adventure. Yes life can be tough, it makes us strong enough to love.

Happy Birthday


May your day be filled with Love, Happiness, and loving memories.

Yes life can be tough, it makes us strong enough to love.

And LIVE on ....

I always did it to the Max !!!
No regrets!
Just keep in going......

Video was not available but I remember that song so well!

🌺🌺🌺 thanks for your wishes @bashadow

i was a Daddy and Mommy's lad, unfortunately i lost them both...The deep Scars i carry around me, i hope i heal!

Happy birthday to you Dear @mammasitta

I am so so so sorry but time will make it much easier and you are a sweet and kind young man and strong to keep your head wide up !!! Love your way!

You are part of my inspiration ma'am...😊

wow! thats sweet!

I'm very emotional and touching, to read your post @mammasitta !
I'm also a daddy's girl and lost him a few years ago, could not even said goodbye to him. For the things he had done. But I'm a very positive person that one day I'm gonna meet him. He's always forever in my heart and dreams. The same I felt for you, that your daddy will always be by your side not in the physical world but spiritual world.

Beautiful and positive words of wisdom!
We are lucky that we have caring fathers and wonderful memories while many others might not have experienced the same. Yes! I am thankful for those days with him on and behind my side. Those dreams are intense at the moment but I will celebrate my birthday tomorrow. A celebration of an amazing life so far 💜

Thanks @mammasitta you are also a very wise and positive person.
I hope you will have a very nice day tomorrow on your birthday and enjoy your loved one. <3

You are so sweet ! Danke schoen!

Very beautiful message indeed from a father to his daughter. The other night I wanted to hear from my deceased father, in a dream and shortly before I woke up in the morning he appeared in front of me smiling,
I took him in my arms and I tightened him very hard, I knew that I was dreaming, so I thought if I dream and I take him in my arms I will not feel it. I took it in me
arm and tightened it very hard and it's like it was still there I felt like before. I needed it so much and he gave it to me. Even though I know it's better where
it is now I am missing enormously every day.

I can feel you! Your words so moving and touching in such emotional times for me. Mine is also in my dreams when I miss him the most. He is kind and gentle and in peace. So, we can be both in peace as well and keep on moving

We had two boys, no girls. It was only after I became a grandfather to a little girl that I discovered how special father daughter, grandpa granddaughter relationships are.

Wow! You are a lucky Grandpa!! I can't wait until I meet my grand children one day ....I hope!

Lucky you sire, i wish my Mom or Dad stayed to see their Grand daughter or Grandson.....My greetings to your lil angel sire...

You leave me speechless, maybe that is also the best,... no words can describe your feelings, now words can turn back time, no time can take away your pain.
Ich mochte nur das BESTE fur dich ! Ein wunderschone Geburtstag Morgen und Geniesse von dein TAG.

So beautiful !!!! Danke Vielmals for your wishes

Thansk for sharing love and acceptance! Its what we all need

Thank you!!!