RE: A Book Entitled "We Should All Be Feminists" Will Be Given to Every 9th Grader in Finland
The most oppressed group of people in the west are white, heterosexual males
Hmm.
Anyway thank you for explaining your position, I can see on a personal level this has really touched you. I'm sorry about your late girlfriend, that sounds tragic and painful.
I would say this though, I have met some very attractive feminists, who simply see feminism as a way to stand up for themselves, so use it passively rather than aggressively.
The genders are different, and I guess your military service recognises that; though I must say it does seem odd that only the men are forced into this. Especially for a small country like Finland, if you look at Israel (different situation I know) women have to do national service as well.
I was going to suggest reading the book, because you might find it's not that offensive after all; however I think you are too close to this; and frankly, I don't live in Finland so my commentary on the matter won't be as accurate as yours; though maybe less bias :-).
Thanks for sharing
Cg