Hello and hello~
I'm wearing a kebaya, one of Malaysian traditional garmentHi everyone it's been a while since I posted a personal post here. I've been lurking around actually but do not really have any ideas to post about so I just do the official things on Steemit since then. If any of you are curious about what I have been doing while I'm away or quiet in here, I was getting myself back to the path that I feel I was intended to take in this lifetime.
Honestly, I feel that I have achieved nothing this year and also last year, nothing much to be proud of as I was like calibrating myself and trying to figure out things just as when I was in my early 17 teen years old me. This year I spent a lot of time reflecting of what I have done and what I should do next and making sure that it is the right one for me.
I stumbled along the way a lot... taking time to heal and then getting up again and again. I won't be putting all those things that happened to me in detail here but I just want to share a bit of my life journey and things that I have learned along the way with you all and hope that you all can learn something out of it.
The first thing I've learned was, to voice my true opinion in a diplomatic way as possible and try to make people see the way I see and perceive the situations that we need to solve. I learned that people have their own perspectives and way looking at problems or situations.. sometimes you get to solve the problems with the hybrids of solutions from all involved parties. To come to a common ground, all these peoples need to sit together and voice out their true opinions and other parties listening and waiting for their turn to voice out their own opinion on the situations too.
There must be at least 1 person, a trusted person who will be on neutral ground to discern and give his/her opinion based on the overall opinions of the involved parties so the problem can be solved better.
Then I learned that people will most likely listen to you if you truly listen, rephrase their concerns in your own way of understanding and acknowledge their feelings in the process.
Another thing is that people will assume things happened based on the past actions of someone regardless if this person has changed or doesn't have any intention of doing the things that these assuming peoples think will do. This will get worse if they're not communicating with each other directly when facing some situations that need to be solved. I'm still confused about why people prefer to assume things and wishing their predictions to come true in this situation, why don't they sit together, and discuss things properly with that particular person. This is just creating unnecessary drama and conflicts. Are they afraid of confronting conflicts and just praying so problems will get better by themselves?
I also learned that people will never understand you unless they really heard you and have been through or can relate to the things you have gone through and without any prejudice or prior judgment. This has pros and cons, for me, I can filter peoples who I want to have in my life and be part of it and who I should ignore and avoid if I can..
All in all, I still love this life, sometimes it broke my heart but am eager to learn more and grow more. If everything is going to be always well and ok for me, I will end up being a weak soul and there's no growth without struggles and falls.
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
and
Smooth Seas Don't Make Good Sailors...
Keep on being strong, keep on learning and building your life, may the good force and great fortune be with you~
I think I can relate to his feelings in this song..
Hello Kannon... How nice it is to be able to read your reflections.
I think you talked about personal relationships. I once read that personal relationships are the greatest source of joy and sadness as well.
To listen and be heard, we have to learn to value the other and
to value we must have a good self-esteem and a good concept of ourselves (this is fundamental)
I think that because it is easier to assume, than to be open to the risk of not being right, or that things are different from how they seem.
Having an open mind involves the risk of not being right. Humility is needed.
And human beings believe they are always right.
In any case, everyone must go their own way.
The good thing about not always being right is that we can be open to beautiful surprises and good things in life too.
I liked reading you. Thanks for sharing 😊🌼
Hi @inspiracion thanks for reading 🤗 yes this is about personal relationships on all levels. Actually nothing on romantic relationship 😆 and I was mostly talking to my inner self reflecting with myself on how broken I am and we both shared and listened to each other on good and bad times we both have been through together 😊
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and perspectives on this matter too. I appreciate that you sharing some of what you have observed and learned from the same situations 💖
Oh yes, I get it, the inner self can be a big ocean to know and understand.
I hope you continue with us writing and sharing 🤗🌸
Hi there! I happen to read your article and until now I thought I was the only one that is feeling a bit bad about not have done something big during these last years. At least here in Steemit I grab enough time and resources to reach my dream of traveling other great places meanwhile this current situation of pandemic is taking place. Good to hear about you. You're looking very beautiful in this cloth at the main picture by the way. Regards to you dear Kannon. Greetings to your children.
Hi @alegnita how are you? yea sometimes we feel we didn't achieve much but maybe that's an opportunity for us to take a break and reflect things. After a long break getting ready to achieve our goal again hopefully.. Take care and keep on moving forward friend 😊
Hello. So good I am by the moment. Happy to see your kind message here. Thank you for the engagement. So true about you wrote before then. We all hope to boost better after the necessary break we need sometimes I'm order to retake our purposes. 🙂
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its nice that i am able to read your blog @cryptokannon
Sometimes people think having a conversation or a discussion means they have to convince the other person of their point of view, but we all should really be trying to find out what we have in common and support the ideas that in fact will take us to a solution. Unfortunately some people´s ego never let them accept other opinions and many times people avoid having a conversation because they may be told an unconfortable truth or something that they don't want to listen.
It was very nice reading you post, I think many of us are in a process, making desitions and making changes, searching our path. If it makes us feel okay and we are not damaging anybody, it`s probably the right thing to do. See you, hope my English wasn't that bad.
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Hi,
I'd like to appeal not as much to your private accomplishments but to the official things on Steemit.
When I try to login into my wallet the system tells me that my password is incorrect. The thing is that I have a PDF document saved with all my keys. So the mistake on my part is excluded.
Can you please advise on how to proceed and maybe how to contact Steemit tach support?
Thank you!
Hi there , really loved reading your thoughts and story. Most of the people can't figure the life and i am also not able to. But also studying and understanding new ways and new things each and day. And trying to improve every single day.
Please give me you telegram or discord id link....!
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