I'm late in my life and finally realized something about me just a couple of yrs ago, that 100% of my sweeties had dark curly hair, from curly like yours to kinky to dreads. It was never a conscious choice, it was just what turned me on, something I never thought about. You should just relax, be yourself, and you will naturally find a lover who appreciates you, and you will have a marvelously natural time together, and maybe even live happily ever after...