The Diary Game || Date: November 12, 2025 || Diary game of 11 days of activities for Mother's Shraddha work.

Dear Steemian Friends,
I’m @azit1980
From #bangladesh
First of all, please accept my sincere greetings. I hope everyone is enjoying a very beautiful life. Today is the 11th day since my mother's death, with a very heavy heart. I wrote this blog based on the most difficult day of my life.

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Today, special arrangements have been made based on the 11th day of the death of my mother, and special activities will be done today. Even though I am not feeling well, I am compelled to write. There is no one else in the world like my mother. I woke up very early today. I couldn't sleep, but I still got out of bed at 5 am. We three brothers got up in the morning and went to the place where we would be working because of the work that my mother had to do today. My mother's work will be done in front of our temple. I have to sit here until the Brahmin comes, because there is a lamp lit there, and this lamp will burn until the Brahmin comes. It is very cold in the village, so I took two pictures with a sheet on.

Today, while performing the Shraddha rituals for my mother, I will need several types of flowers, dubba, tulsi leaves, sesame seeds, and many other materials. My elder sister collected these from various places yesterday. The work that will be done after 11 days today is very painful. I never imagined that I would be working after my mother's passing away during this time. Every moment I remember only my mother. I always prayed to the Creator. I will take care of my mother for a few days, but I no longer have the opportunity to do so. If you perform the Shraddha of your mother with these materials, your mother's soul will find peace on the other side.

All the things you see in this picture are basically given to the Brahmin, according to my scriptures; these are to be given to the Brahmin when working after death. All the things that my mother likes or that she uses daily are basically given. Apart from what you see here, many other things were given to the Brahmin, including a calf, a bed, and a blanket. Since they were not all together, no pictures were taken. Apart from what you see here, many other things were given to the Brahmin, including a calf, a bed, and a blanket. No pictures were taken because they were not all together. The Brahmin was offered a pair of shoes, a mushari, An umbrella and a stool have also been provided. Everyone, please pray for and bless my mother so that she may be in heaven.

The Brahmin has just arrived among us. The Brahmin is telling us to get ready. We are three brothers. When everyone is ready together, the Brahmin will start working. I am almost ready, but while working, I have to wear a uniform, and I cannot have anything on my body. There will only be a cloth given by the Brahmin. This picture is of my mother before she did her ritual.

Brahmin Mahashay is ready; he has arranged all the ingredients near him in such a way that it takes a long time. It takes him about 1 hour to get these ready. I told Brahmin to wear the dooti we gave him. He was a little nervous to wear it. He will sell everything we gave him. If the dooti is worn, then you cannot sell it. However, we are ready for the work of Mother's Shraddha. Mother's picture is kept in front, and our God's picture is kept next to it. We have prepared three mats for sitting. We will sit and work on these mats. Today, it is almost 4 pm when my mother finishes her work. After completing the work, we ate rice with vegetarian food at night after 11 days. I did not understand the value of a mother when I was a mother; now I understand how valuable she was in my life.

Best regards
@azit1980