Does an Action Speak Stronger to Decide on You?

in Sri Lanka-ශ්‍රී ලංකා3 years ago

When we see ourselves through a mirror what would we be able to notice? Is it just me? Or on the other hand do you attempt to distinguish someone else inside you? A person that is lying behind your look. A person that you never let to see anyone. The imagination of your mind is uncountable and it breaks every rule that we are physically bonded to a box. We have hundreds of characters and hundreds of personalities that laid within us without appearing to the outside. We never attempt them to release it. We simply see the external appearance of one's life. We never attempt to comprehend or proceed with different characters that they are holding with them. By seeing just one side of a person can never fabricate a story he has completed up until now.

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The actions of a person never defined the internal personality and it never reviews the hidden imaginations that what they are generally proceeding with quiet. Be a decent eyewitness and uncover the minuscule focuses that blended in with their stories. The darkest sides in one's life will never reveal but without knowing it don't try to define them or judge them. Coz they all are in a manner they own. You can't transform it. The way they are strolling is the most ideal ways for them to walk. All things considered, we can make things somewhat agreeable for them by understanding their inward spirits. In society, most of the peoples are attempting to settle on fast decisions and attitudes just by seeing the action of a person.

Over and over I concerning a question about why they so hurry to judge and criticize a person with an action? An action is just a fractional approach of a human that is lead with thousands of inner angles. We just see the outer appearance but not the inner aspects and the action they are going with. When the thing is this, is it fair to talk crappy things about one's life?

A person with harsh conditions is always the same? Are all persons that have put on a smile all over is glad? No, they neither cheerful nor fulfilled. They are picked to be that way. They are checked and brought up to wear something else to them. They are covered and they are entranced by the manner in which they uncover to society. Yet, why around there? Coz, the character of somebody is profoundly impacted and molded by other's eyes and other's mouths.

The unruly perspectives of the human mind let one into a critical condition and try to make one into their aspects and perspectives. We have chosen and we have given thousands of definitions for others by just looking at the way they play on stage. It's only a certain role of them that has been plotted them to act by us. What about another role? Maybe it better than what we forcefully set to play them in an audience.

The main thing we have to gain is, a person is not a solitary role but a collection. Don't try to judge by seeing one role of a person that he or she is appointed to play by the outside. Try to read the collection of one's role that they are willingly looking forward to. An action never is the jury to lock a person with embarrassment.

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 3 years ago (edited)

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There is a Japanese saying that says everyone have three faces.
The first face, you show to the world.
The second face, you show to your close friends, and your family.
The third face, you never show anyone. It's the real you.

 3 years ago 

I agree with it. The real me is the one who we never let to see anyone.

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 3 years ago 

Of course actions speak louder than words. But both can't define someone's personality wholly.

I also have different personalities before different people but inner me is a whole different person even I can't understand.

 3 years ago 

even I can't understand.

Same here. I also wonder about what my real state is while watching through a mirror😄

I strongly agree with your statement, This is something that is very tight in my mind too. Sometimes we can't be ourselves. We become different people in society as well as in front of our own people. I agree with your definition of this.

 3 years ago 

Yeah we all play different characters with different peoples. We have to manage and understand other's roles too.