If you take it in advance, you must give it first

First of all, he did some things for you, such as giving you gifts or spending time with you. You have to express gratitude appropriately so that next time he has the motivation to do more for you.

Secondly, a man is the most cost-accounting animal. You have to make him agree that investing in you is very worthwhile.

Especially when he pays no corresponding return, and you do not give any response at this time, he will feel that it is worthless and lose!

If a man doesn't take the initiative to spend money for you, don't complain or ask for it.

Once you speak, it will be compulsive, and it is easy for the other party to have a psychological resistance; don't let him spend money on you in a way of comparison and stimulation. A man will think that you are not correct in three views of vanity and worry about the high cost of living after marriage. .

After a long time, I will evade you.

Enhance your own value

You know, when a man establishes a relationship, what he fears most is that the other party is charged with his own money and status, rather than simply because of love.

You have to make a man feel that you are willing to be with him because you admire his talent and be conquered by your personal charm.

Your own value directly determines what a man gives you. You usually wear cheap, then he will naturally give you cheap; if you wear all expensive, then he will give you expensive.

What a man gives you is directly proportional to the value you show to the man.

Only if you become a man's most precious luxury, he will decide to invest for you. Only when your value increases, he will give gifts that match you, because your value reflects his taste.

Positive stimulation is the key

Most girls often have a misunderstanding and are afraid to praise their boyfriend. In the words of my students, "I never boast about my boyfriend, because I am afraid that he will be proud. In the future, he will continue to praise and stimulate him to treat me well."

This sounds reasonable, but the crux of the problem is that the other party will feel that your desire is a bottomless pit, and over time, your boyfriend will feel that giving will never satisfy you.

In fact, the correct way to open is the golden mean. When you receive a gift, you only need to say, “It’s pretty, thank you!” instead of saying “Wow, this is great!”, nor is it expressionless or expressing. dissatisfied.

Of course, you have to judge whether the opponent has reached his extreme value. What is the extreme value? The extreme value is the limit that a person can pay. For example, if he has 100 yuan in his pocket, he has already paid 99 yuan for you, so you still have to recognize him at this time.
　　
If you continue to express dissatisfaction, the other party will give you everything, and his own survival will be a problem. How can he love you? So appropriate.