Many girls will fall into this kind of embarrassment:

There was another step to redeem the success, but in the end he was asked to break up again, and everything he gave was a bubble.

You may feel puzzled and almost reunited. What caused him to break up again?

In fact, you missed the success, probably because you lacked the ability to love, and these abilities are necessary for you to recover, and of course they are also indispensable when you are with him in the future!

1.Lack the ability to bend over

Recovering success lies in you doing every little thing now, not doing a big thing. Therefore, we must start with the details of life.

If you always focus on the success or failure of the restoration, you will ignore the entire process of restoration, and your restoration is destined to be unsuccessful.

Because you only want to have successful results, but don't want to bend down, don't want to work hard for success, but always want to get something for nothing, but do you think the goddess of luck will patronize you every time?

The ability to bend over means that you have to put aside your arrogant posture and take the initiative to do some concrete things for your love life.

When you keep bending over and picking up the "stone" on the ground, your emotional path will be "smooth and easy".

2. Lack of the ability to empathize

For boys, who is more important than a girlfriend or a game is really a dilemma!

We might as well do empathy: If you and your girlfriend are shopping or watching a movie, your boyfriend calls and says if you don't come back in 10 minutes, I will break up with you. How would you feel?

If you don't know how to stand in the perspective and position of others, and you don't understand empathy, there will be no way to communicate effectively between you. But what we are talking about in recovery is how to use reverse thinking to think about what the other party wants.

Empathy can improve the intimacy between you to a certain extent, let him enter the psychological comfort zone and maintain the same frequency with you, and cherish everything you give.

3.Lack of the ability to guide investment

I believe that you are no stranger to the phenomenon of infidelity in marriage, whether it is in the news report or in the friends around you, it will always happen.

Many women at home do their best to take care of their children, serve the elderly, clean up their homes every day, and do their best to give their children and husband the best, but in the end they find that their husbands are the best for women outside! Why is this?

It's because they never let each other pay and it is difficult to accept the kindness of men to her!

At any time, women should not forget to invest in themselves, and guide the other party to invest in themselves.

When you live out your charm, you will let men surround you every day and give you a crush on you. What the elder sister also wants to tell you is, don’t put too much trust in the sweet words of men, saying, “Eat more and it’s okay, you’re not fat.

Even if you really become fat, I love you! "No matter when, I will never leave you!" "

Love is always unpredictable, how can there be no wind or rain? It is because of the baptism of the storm that there will be a beautiful rainbow, and it is because of the pain of failure that there will be the joy of success.