We are not losing our very existence in trying to bring the world under our control.

in Fungi Lovers5 years ago

Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, Emu may have increased the number of friends. Many may have become acquainted with strangers. But the distance between our family and people has decreased? Or has it increased? The people around have started to become strangers today.

Thousands of media platforms have been created for the benefit of technology. Thousands of friends have been created. But are the joys that were once in the midst of friendship still there today? Can a friend be told everything today? Is it done? Do you see the afternoon sun by cycling 10 km to talk to your friend? Nowadays, if you commit suicide, your best friend can't say he committed suicide. Today we forgot to wait to get everything within our reach.

Someone told me I love you, if I don't find you then I will wait for you for the rest of my life. But destiny has forgotten him before me. And I am still counting the waiting time with his words. So nowadays we have forgotten to wait. Today, just as I am happy when I get something like mind, I get frustrated as quickly as if I don't get something like mind.

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Today, as friends have decreased, family relationships have also decreased. At one time, families were very large. There were families; parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, aunts and many more. Then a small child used to spend time with everyone. Today even a small child spends time on mobile phones, games, Facebook and YouTube. Today almost everyone gets married with love. But the number of divorces has increased a thousand times more than before. But why? Why or why not?

Have we ever thought? Yes, today we make a very quick decision. You told me that if Bidhata doesn't give you my reunion then no one will come in your life. But in less than 1 day your decisions have changed. So we I came to a very quick conclusion without thinking of anything. I made my life partner at the first sight of someone. Again, due to a very small misunderstanding, I broke the relationship so quickly.

Today there is not the slightest bit of patience among us. It is not anyone's fault, nowadays just like boys find the form of girls during marriage, just like girls also find rich boys during marriage. Now no one finds the beauty of character.
But do you know the funny thing? Beauty and money do not last long. So maybe nowadays relationships do not last long. Yes, because of this, relationships may not last long.

In the last 8/10 years since I opened my Facebook ID, God has given me the opportunity to talk to a lot of people. I have matched your problems with the people around me. I have matched them with my own life. Today I am forced to say one thing.

Everyone has a problem in life, but if you grow up in a small family, you will notice that you have a lot of depression or frustration. But if a friend of yours comes from a very large family, or if he has the opportunity to spend more time with his family. You will notice that your friend's depression or frustration is much less than yours. You will get angry very quickly in the matter. Hopefully, no one will get angry very much in a big family.

The reason you know is that because you are from a small family, your parents can't spend much time with you because of their busy schedule. Also, most of the boys and girls from small families grow up alone. They spend time with their parents, uncles, aunts, grandparents. They rarely get the chance to spend time. So they often do not understand the value of the relationship in the right way. They often face new problems when mixing with people. But the case of a large family is the opposite. They spend time with their parents due to busyness. Even if they don't get a chance to spend time, they get a chance to spend time with grandparents, uncles and aunts. So most of the boys and girls of big families get more opportunity to know about reality .....

They do not break down easily. They can keep themselves normal even when they are depressed. A strange strength is created between them while enduring many kinds of hardships. One thing surprises me a lot. The number of suicides or suicides from small families is very high. It is more common in small families to break up the relationship. On the other hand, due to the high cost in large families, parents can not meet the needs of the child without much need. So children can easily cope with the difficulty of not getting it from a young age. Learns to take.

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But if the family is small, then the parents can easily fulfill the desires of the child. For this reason, the small family boys and girls can not easily accept the pain of not getting up. Many may know, but I say to you today I will have a request from you, hold on to the family relationship, do not let any relationship break up. Sadness will come, trouble will come, obstacles will come, there will be fights. But if the relationship breaks down, you will not find the man to fight. I was surprised to hear. There is a strange job in Japan. They buy you money and take you home just to talk for a while. To talk to you. They will share their thoughts with you and you have to sit down and listen to them. Talk to you soon.

What do you mean? Breaking up a short story? Breaking up is not a problem, but remember it. One day there will be a time when you have to pay someone else to share your words like the people of Japan. A book is made with a few pages. A library is built with books. Every human being is like a library to me. Do you know what it means to lose a human being from my life? I lost a library. I hope you understand my words. Take it. Thank you

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