I have admired people that are direct. At first I used to find them annoying. But as I have grown up, it is hard to be direct and not be a prick. Directness doesn't come to me, sugarcoating isn't for me, blending in was. These interactions are draining.
Reading your side, you are quite direct. The way we are different is amusing to me. We may get so angry at people for the way they are. Let's appreciate uniqueness. Next time you find an annoying person, say you are quite unique in your own way.
All in fun.