We both might be the same person haha.

Yeah, living in different bodies. 😅

You can't escape it so how about talk about it beforehand so that you save yourself a lot of emotional trauma and stuff?

There are somethings in life which you absolutely can't understand without going through them. One of which is losing a loved-one.

I think reasoning fails when you lose family. Sure, time does heal all wounds but you do get a wound. You grieve - either silently or openly.