Confidentiality - How To Tell Confidential Story?
The hell on earth for me and my son
After the death of my mother, the death of my father, I thought that financially we will become stable . My mother and grandmother were bedridden since 2013.
Telling my confidential story maybe its not good but I can tell it for a lesson how to overcome and handle such emotion and maybe people can pick a lesson from this.
After that situation, I was devastated again when my son was in prison due to drug related issues but it was wrong . The suspect was his friend who escaped that time. Police needs promotion and there were so many irregularities happened that time. It shocked me and made me depressed. He have two kids , both girls who need him everyday. It was one of the hardest time in my life . And I am away from home.
What we did , kept from the knowledge of the children. We told them white lies telling them that their father went abroad in Dubai. They believed but they were always longing the presence of my son. They kept on asking why not making video call? Thank God , it was pandemic, they allowed video calling that time.
My son is not a pusher, or a seller. His friend working with him in the my municipality hall was a dealer but he didn't know that time. The man work their for a long time but my son was just a year ago. Jealousy might be the reason because he had given trust by the administration. My son studied again to learn more as government scholar. Many eyes watching over him. My son is a kind of friendly person . But you know what did the culprit did to him, he convinced my son to take that drugs during their Christmas party so when he was apprehended, he was positive taking that substance. The bad man lived freely until now.
My son was so sicked inside the jail. I spent my vacation but seeing him only 10minutes weekly for 3 months and I went back here to work to support his children and his needs inside. He told me that he never deserved that place but life is so unfair. A lot of big drug lord who are free but my son became the victim of the war on drugs and the police also took opportunity when they caught number of users means a promotion. War on drugs was a good implementation by the government but the people around drug dealers and pushers users and some officers or politicians are involved on that games. The poor people are the victims.
He stayed for 18 months and given probation. The children were happy about the returned of their father as well. Now the children don't want to work far from them. They were traumatized those moment, they played at night then waking up in the morning waiting for my son from the market to buy for their breakfast but no one returned that Saturday morning of February 2021.
His surprised arrival for the kids that made everyone cried a lot.
So confidential story but I hope you learn a lesson from this . Its a real story . Do not be afraid of telling the truth but sometimes we need telling the children a white lies most especially when the topic is so confidential. I don't want to see my granddaughter lost their confident with their father.
Inviting @jurich60 @me2selah @sarimanok to join us here.
Thank you #dream Steem
The little ones are caught, the big ones are let go... So they say. It's probably true all too often. I wish your family the strength to work through such experiences and then move on with life as it feels right. Children in particular are always innocent and suffer from what adults have to deal with...
You are right my dear and I am the one who is the most affected. That time, I already want to stay with them for good but the universe was not in favor to that planned and I believe , there are reason why it happened. I am hoping for the great gift after those trials. Thank you for understanding
What do I mean? That's a good question.
What do you meant to say my friend?