Tu opinión Importa? Abortion - Women On Waves
Why is it you shout "all life matters" if you don't give a damn about all those children, abused, abandoned, hated, hungry, molested by their parents, living on the streets? Will you give all those unborn a home, pay for their costs of living, education, cherish them till they can stand on own feet? I don't think so.
The worst thing that can happen to a child is being unwanted, hated, ignored and abused, emotionally broken.
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After they cut me open from head to toe this was what the doctor said: Girl, small chance you will ever be with a child. Next, they parked me in a room with 4 pregnant women. They looked healthy and happy to me. It must be great to be pampered for 6 months.
Ever been assaulted by a group of 35+ year-old men? Beaten up by sticks, belts and raped by beer bottles and broomsticks? Any idea how it is to be pregnant as an 8-year-old? Disabled, incontinent for the rest of your life?
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Stop forcing or talking women into having children. Taking care of a child is a huge responsibility, one that never ends.
Over 50% of all pregnancies are not planned, unwanted which leaves those against abortion with two choices: adoption or letting the child be born.
An unwanted child will frequently feel like a stranger at 'home' and will never be cherished. The result can be disastrous. It turns out the same for the average adopted child. The Adoption Law of the 50s forced women who can't take care of their child to give them away for adoption - good for 1800 children/year with the top years in the 80s. By now Dutch people hardly adopt children. It's takes years to be accepted, costs loads of money and the adopted children have a lot in common with the unwanted ones.
The choice for an abortion is more often forced upon women by men. A population of at least 50% unwanted, neglected and abused people will do no society any good.
I woke up because I heard someone cry. It tore my heart in pieces. I lay still in my bed kept my eyes closed and all of a sudden realized that the one who caused the heartbreaking crying was me.
Two ladies in the room chit-chatted about their abortion. I already have two children, one said, it's enough. We told the children we are going out shopping. I have to be home before the kids are back from school. We already bought them a present.
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Me llama la atención que en todas las imágenes que has elegido las madres están completamente tristes y desconsoladas, al parecer la maternidad es una tragedia y tanto madres como hijos están condenados a la miseria, ni siquiera a la pobreza, la infelicidad y el rechazo.
No concuerdo, a veces los padres ni se enteran de que algún bebé existió. Por otra parte, los bebés crecen y se vuelven personas independientes, claro, si los dejas vivir.
Muy aparte de los casos de violación, el acto sexual suele ser consensuado, aunque dé como resultado un embarazo no deseado. No deseado no significa "inesperado" porque si nos ajustamos a la realidad biológica, en el mundo entero se conoce cómo prevenir el embarazo.
¿Cómo saber el resultado antes de tiempo?
Desconozco de dónde provienen estas estadísticas, pero solo me pregunto ¿quién tiene la bola de cristal para saber quién será productivo y quién no? ¿Hace mucho bien a la sociedad el que no asume su vida sexual con responsabilidad? ¿qué es hacer bien a la sociedad?
Estas dos mujeres se van a casa y luego de compras, así nada más, como si nada. Qué gran sociedad.
I talk about my country the statistics and I assume you talked about the situation in yours, the culture yiu arevraised in and your believes and religion.
I had nonintentiin to join this 'contest' since the answer is not a yes or no. It all depends on the personal situatiin which you stated in your own article.
If your answer is no this means the law will make no exception, no matter if the girl is 8 years old, a woman is gang raped or will die. No is no.
It's not to me to judge over others since I do not know what thrives them or the man! I have plenty of women seen try to fled the hospital because they didn't want an abortion.
Why paint each woman as if it's a ln easy and fun thing to do? To me this is a big tragedy and no matter the choice made, yes or no, it will infect the rest of their lives.
By the way you read the last part so you know not everyone is sad or perhaps these women were just pretending?
If unwanted, abandoned children (by society included) change into criminals it doesn't any society good.
An abirtiin can never be done overnight. There will be talks with doctors, osychiatrists, social workers. No woman will be talked into it exceot if it is a doctor. In the last case case the dictor tried to talk me into this several times and even suggested to better remove my whomb at the age of 19 years old!
I avoid bringing in religion when I give my opinion on this subject because there are values that do not belong to any religion, they are universal.
In my country there are extremes of poverty and wealth, the practice of abortion or the decision to bring children into the world even if they were not expected does not distinguish social classes.
This dynamic will not judge who is right. Personally, I am depressed by the argument of poverty or unwanted pregnancies to justify abortion. It brings out the prejudices.
I don't know the statistics, but for sure not everyone who was born into poverty or was rejected is a criminal and not everyone who was expected or had everything is a right person. Your background or what happens to you in life does not define you.
I don't know who invented "therapeutic" abortion, I'm sure wasn't a therapist. It definitely shouldn't be easy in rape cases, but shifting the blame onto an innocent person isn't going to heal the woman's wounds either. It's clear that doctors don't know about psychological therapy either, their thing is to cut here and there, not to heal anyone, much less a wound like that.
I do not see the sense in turning the victim into the victimizer, much less using rape victims or poor children as a flag to justify women who are doing this as a product of promiscuous behavior, not because they have been raped, as if it's just removing a tumor.
The women at the end of the text speak as if they were talking about wallets, I already have two, they are enough. They don't give me any other impression, like grief or pain. And the images sell motherhood as a condemnation.
I'm sorry for the harshness, I'm just too analytical, I don't want to be anyone's judge, but I also don't want to encourage what I don't think is right.
We all do bring in religion since it is what built our way of thinking, the norms & values we have or where a nation/society stands for. How we are raised influences us and religion/beliefs are a huge part of that even if you do not cite a part from the bible.
It's fine to share what you think. You do not know how they work here before an abortion is allowed and these are not doctors only.
While you are shocked about what I wrote I am shocked about the entries I read.
You said the society I live in is sick but after what I read I can only conclude with you it's not different. If the only way out it to abort yourself there is something seriously wrong.
Goodnight dear. I am awake since 6 am and by now it's 2 am again. I had it with reading, upvoting and commenting. This makes me sick to the bone.
A good night/day/weekend to you
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Al no desear hijos lo mas lógico sería cuidarse, vivimos en tiempos donde la información está al acceso de todos, por lo que todos deberían saber como prevenir un embarazo no deseado.
Otro cosa distinta son los embarazos por violación, o aquellos cuyas madres corren riesgo y los que traen malformaciones, que pueden ser causas validas para interrumpir un embarazo.
A la sociedad le falta además de educación, planificación familiar.
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I think if you read what I wrote you know which girls and women I am talking about. I am not talking about those who rather have a boy than a girl, only want the perfect child or are "too lazy" to use birth control although it does not mean the dissicion taken is an easy one and those women do not cry about the deciscion.
Desciscions are made under certain circumstances and I don't think outsiders have the right to judge. We all differ and have our own burden to carry. I hope you will never be in a situation you have to make a hard discision you thought you would never make.
If it comes to abortion an unwanted child is the one who suffers most. I think there are too many unwanted, unhappy, desperate and lonely people in this world. People you and I will not reach out to, comfort or welcome in our homes.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's not easy to discuss a topic like this.
It's highly appreciated you do. 🍀❤️
Gracias a ti por darnos tu opinión al respecto.
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Where exactly is the line between what is AI or not? I noticed many pictures are not taken by the author and those for free are frequently ook made or changed with help of AI. I am here to write, to share an opion which could be useful to know to those willing to learn or able to see 'it' from a different side.
Can you tell me why you hate me?
If you host a contest with this topic you should count on entries not sharing your opinion. If a Venezulan girl writes here about her abortion the entire group will attack het. Is that how love, understanding and respect is shown? Is love each other not the most important rule we should follow?
I find it remarkable it's fine to you I am under attack if I share what I know, hear, see and feel and if the country I live in is called a sick society. Sorry but if I read what those poor girls in Venezuela do I can only say: this is cruel, barbaric. What kind of parent let's down on his child this way? It's fine if you call me crazy but I will never understand this attitude.
I agree that if a child is not wanted prevention is the best way but there are 1001 reasons why this not be possible and it sounds to me in your country it's worse than mine.
I try to understand but I can't it must be a cultural difference. I keep asking myself why is it you mothers do not raise your sons and tell them to stay away from girls, why is it you do not give them condoms and keep blaming the girls?
All over the world we know how persistent a boy/man can be and they rarely hear "NO".
Next time I will share the photos of beaten up and raped girls and women with their files and those of an abortion and beaten up children and also the ones of children taken away by the government because the parents don't earn enough and didn't pay the next taxes... since AI is not allowed.
Thank you for brighten up my mind. You made me understand why girls are forced to put their lives at stake. And that the hate against those who dared to share their opinion and feelings is a real thing.
I wish you a happy Eastern with like minded.
Let's celebrate life. 🍀❤️
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Hola, hay muchos niñas que han sido abusadas sexualmente y como consecuencias salen embarazadas, al nacer como es un hijo no deseado vive bajo maltrato y eso es muy cruel
It indeed it cruel not only for the pregnant girl/woman but the child as well. It's hard to survive and if you struggle it is very hard to raise a child.
Thank you for commenting on such a difficult topic, one most people prefer to ignore.
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This is a painful read, because it scares my heart . But right now let me try to write something short concerning it. if my heart and hands refuse me, then I will return here
I am back as my translator isn't smart enough. For me Abortion should be a choice of the woman and not her society. For Only she knows if she is ready or not, it sounds like i am being insensitive but you see birthing a child is a never ending journey, it changes almost everything about her, her body changes, her sleep changes, her freedom is borrowed. She centers her everything on the child until the child grows older. We handle issues and lives situations differently, one raped might have her child and love with all she got, another might see the child and live over that painful incident all over again, putting herself and the child into a much greater pain that might never end.
Sensitive topics like this i try to avoid as i brings pains to my heart.
These are indeed sensitive topics and the hate is felt which makes me clear love doesn't exist but just something people preach about.
This entry also made me realize that love and openness is fake and this is not the country I will ever emigrate to.
Btw I still didn't receive an answer why in 2024 boys are not blamed and raised better. 200% if not 1000 my son would never get himself in such a trouble and if not dump the girl.
If it comes to sacrifices, bad health included,
It's not only that but it tears you apart if you are not able to give a child what it needs. Those needs might nit be extreme high till the moment the government interferes with everything you should buy and do which already starts with a long list of sg#@ needed and shown before the delivery. Most of it I never used.
Next the fight about my bed (the height) since giving birth at home we still do although I didn't needrd it.
Next a 'nurse' at home you have to pay and so on.
If you are poor they send the police and 'child protection' and drag your children out of your home.
Only a few years ago it happened to many because the parents cheated on taxes. Parents lost their homes, children, divorced and are broken and till today no one knows what happened to all those children. Are they sold? They simply vanished in thin air. Btw the parents did nothing wrong it was a mistake of the taxes-office.
Before that I spoke with other couples who left the country with their children to keep them out of the hands of CP. One of them was the lady who introduced and helped me as I started on Steemit.
The world, life just like love and pregnancies isn't black or white. Their are many shades in between . To me a parent who abused a child is not the one who enters heaven.
It's the one who knows himself, wants the best fir herself since only than we are able to cherish and spread love.
Thank you for taking the time to answer. To me you are not harsh or cruel but a wise woman and lovely mom.
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When I hear things about democracy and the power the so called democratic leaders have and still call it democracy is like an insult to mankind... why will you take a child away from their parents just bcos of a stupid tax. I trust my country people the government are trash but they know what not to do sometimes. Humanity is preached, talked about but never fully shown. It is alll fake love and absolute madness for constant intoxication for control of others, everyone should control only their selves and allow others live their lives as they choose
My guess is as long as you shout you are democratic it's enough to be democratic.
Lies and gossip is easily spread, gossip magazines were not too long ago seen as trash today it's the way the best newspapers write, those our government uses to be informed.
see my latest post #freewrite ... who need's a hashtag
En tu opinión estás en contra de la maternidad, la cuestión era opinar si en tu país se práctica el aborto, un bebé es una nueva vida cuando no se planifica un embarazo la mujer siempre la catalogan como la culpable cuando es cuestión de ambos, otra cosa es cuando una mujer es abusada sexualmente y queda embarazada allí es decisión de ella abortar o no la sociedad no tiene nada que ver en esto es solo su decisión y nadie la juzgará por eso
Creo que no tienes idea de lo que escribí o prefieres ser sordo y ciego para las mujeres necesitadas.
Le expliqué exactamente, con ejemplos incluidos, lo que siento si se trata del aborto.
Dejé claro que depende de la situación, di diferentes ejemplos de situaciones. No puedo evitar que esto no te haga dudar, preguntar o cuestionar.
¿Buscaste en internet cuál es el trayecto si quieres un sbortion? ¿Te tomaste el tiempo para investigar quiénes son las 'Mujeres en las Olas' y por qué limpian el desastre que otras sociedades hacen debido a la falta de información, educación, empatía y amor por sus propios hijos?
No sé qué más decir. Está claro cómo te sientes y me odias por compartir mis pensamientos sobre un tema difícil como este.
Sepa que no soy su enemigo.
Saludos de una terapeuta, madre soltera de cinco y 13 niños maltratados no deseados que nadie adoptaría jamás.
Les deseo una feliz Pascua
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