My Opinion About Fat And Skinny People
So this is it, because actually I was born overweight, because when I was born at that time, the medical team needed SAR assistance for 3 days, to be able to find my navel, to cut the umbilical cord. My length when I was born was around 60 cm, and with a weight at that time of around 6 kg, when I was born.
So this is it, if you say I am against big size, if you say I am against it, I am not. Because I know how it feels to be fat. I know, because I used to be fat, when I was still fat, how my friends mocked me, when I sat on their iPhone, I sat on it and it turned into an iPhone.
And, the data I have, that many thin people are successful, many women also long for a body like mine. If I go into the size area, there is actually a lot of discrimination. Size, not only abroad, but in Indonesia, for example, flight attendants, they are said to be slim, proportional, tall and so on. Actually, what is the relationship?
Now there is an airplane, called Jumbo jetz, right? The crew should also be jumbo, this crew is all flat, the crew should be jumbo, so it doesn't match, that's discrimination.
Then fat people actually cool the world, for example when a ceremony is in the middle of a field, right?
People with chubby bodies take refuge in fat people, so they cool the world. Well, that's why many people say, if fat people, besides being hard to get a job, there are also few partners, it turns out that's not the case.
Everyone wants an ideal body, and what an ideal body actually looks like, changes from year to year. So maybe, if you don't know, I'll tell you, because I just found out, from Google. So from 1900 to 1950, the ideal body shape was like the Gibson Girl, if you know, here's a picture.
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Her hips are big, her waist is small. So, if we used to watch cowboy movies, women would wear dresses, which had to be pulled up, to reduce the stomach area, to the waist, but the hips were wide. From 1960 to 1970, that was the ideal body shape, so the trend changed, so if you know?
Then from 1980 to 2000, there was another change, which was still considered, she was a slim woman but tight, a bit athletic. Then that was in 1980-2000. What does that mean? There is nothing as good and as comfortable as having a slim body.
But I don't want to be discriminatory, I'll take an example, the data states that there are people who are fat, who are obese, but they can be successful. There is a model named Ashley Graham, she is the first big woman, who entered the list of the most expensive models in the world.
Factors and causes of obesity that must be watched out for, people who are thin, do not necessarily not have diseases, right? Because it can be, the cause. one, because of diet. So eat that, just eat food, don't follow the patterns in eating, this can make you fat.
The second, because of genetics, so parents who are fat, for example, tend to have fat children, and so on. Others mean, everything can enter these others, for example the environment, this also has an effect, maybe we underestimate the environment. But this environment has a big influence on obesity, my neighbor used to have a thin child, when he moved to a complex filled with fat people, you know what happened, his child disappeared.
So this is it, the ideal body in my opinion. I think Sabina Altynbekova, this volleyball player from Kazakhstan, can be an example of this ideal body shape.
According to research, there is one thing that actually happens, if I'm not mistaken in the United States, that obesity actually causes more deaths than people who are starving, they say.
If I were to maintain it like this, I could be confident and comfortable with my current body size, what I do is, like this, people see who we are, not just physically. But what abilities can we offer. So maybe at first they see the physical, but over time, after they get to know us better, they can see the personality, the abilities. Well, that's what makes me confident.
Maybe my size is not attractive here, but maybe in other parts, it might look good, so that's the hope for people with bodies like mine, something like that. But there's another reason in my opinion, people can be fat or thin, it's because of love.
So like this, there are people in a relationship, even though both are ideal, the man is ideal, the woman is ideal. But he often chats on WA, SMS, or asks via phone, have you eaten yet, honey?
Surely the question is that..that...then, finally this man eats..eats..eats.., then, finally he gets fat, because of love.
And being thin can also be because of love. For example, someone is eating at his house. Well, with his mother's loving words, he immediately becomes thin.
For example, he wants to take food, then his mother says "Hey honey, it's for your little brother, he won't get any".
In the end, he doesn't eat, so he becomes thin.
So in my opinion, fat or thin, it's because of love. I'm comfortable with a body like this, many band members are successful because they are thin. For example, Kaka Kaka Slank, then Bim-bim, who likes to play the drums, then there are the Rolling Stones, The Beatle, John Lennon. So it doesn't matter if they all succeed, the body becomes the measure
"Size Does Or Doesn't Matter".
Actually, in our lives today, it's no longer the time for us to worry about size. Because we actually understand that there are far more important things than just size. In our appearance we need confidence, that's what's important. Whatever our body size, if we are confident, there will be no problems.
According to Forbes magazine, the richest people in Indonesia, R. Budi and Michael Hartono, have assets of 175 trillion
And also according to data, the poorest person in the world is the late Hamdan ATT. Have you ever seen him during his life even though the difference is far, fighting appearing on infotainment, have you ever seen him, right?
Why do we make a problem of physical problems. Even the rich and poor never fight in physical size. Therefore my conclusion is, happiness is simple, being satisfied with what you have, and not being troubled by what you don't have.
I want to say, accept this as a gift. When you are small, accept it, when you are thin, accept it, when you are fat, accept it. The important thing is that we can be grateful, if you are tortured by it, as long as it cannot be changed, it is indeed meant to be suffered. So don't try to change it and justify any means. Believe me, everything has an end, sad people have limits, happy people also have an ending, ugly people, fat people, thin people, also die.
Lastly from me, accept life as it is, but more importantly, don't let life be nothing.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam