That s why I don't want to sacrifice my happiness for a child. I don't want to live my dreams through a child. Like parents who want their kids to become accountants, for example, because they missed it out themselves. I want to live my own and I'm sure my son will understand, maybe not right away but in 20 years, that I'm not around every day to take care of him or that I need time or space to live my life too. Living my life would in no way rob me of the immeasurable love I have for him.