If I started again today..

First of all, congratulations to @josevas217, for organizing such a beautiful competition. How are you all, my friends? I hope you are all very well and healthy. Before I start writing today, I would like to admit that this is a very personal matter for me. Because while walking the path of life, many of us come across moments that we want to go back and change. But we cannot change that, this is destiny, this is the writing on our foreheads. So friends, today I am sharing that feeling with all of you, I hope you like it.

1. If I could start life again from a certain time…

First of all, if I were asked to choose, I would like to go back to that time in my life, When I was a little more indifferent to my life. I miss that time of my youth a lot, when I was very hasty in making any decision. Today I feel like if I had been a little calmer and had thought more seriously about my future, maybe things would have been different. Maybe life would have changed a little. But I know I will never get that time back. It's just a wish in my mind that I have been holding on to for many years.

2. What big decision would I have made differently if I had made it today

I once made a decision in my life that took me back a lot. There was an opportunity to move forward, but I didn't do it, in fact, I didn't have the courage to take that opportunity at that time. So I think if that opportunity had been there today, I would have definitely taken that opportunity.
Because now I understand, sometimes a single decision can completely change the course of a person's life. Which I understand now at my late age. That's why I regret not making that decision today.

3. What behavior would I want to change in the past

I had a stubbornness inside me, which often forced me to make wrong decisions at that time. Maybe it was my small ego, maybe it was the urge to prove myself at that time. So today I think, if I had reduced my stubbornness a little then, looked at the situation in a general way, I could have saved myself from a lot of unnecessary trouble, coming to the present time.

4. The biggest lesson I learned in life came from a mistake

At one point in my life, I made a mistake that seemed very small at the time. But later it taught me the biggest lesson. I have learned that, never underestimate anything. A small mistake can lead to big losses. And that is exactly what has happened in my life many times. So I have learned very well that nothing should be considered small, we have a lot to learn from a young age. That is why this mistake has made me more alert today, and more responsible today.

5. What opportunity did I miss

Yes, such an opportunity comes in every person’s life. I really could not seize one opportunity. It is my own failure that I still admit. It was an opportunity to improve myself, an opportunity to take myself further. At that time, I thought, there is time, I will do it later. But sadly, that opportunity never came in my life. So, today I understand that time waits for no one. Time just passes at its own pace, leaving only memories and opportunities. If that opportunity had come to me again today, I would have grabbed it without thinking anything. Because once I missed it, there is no chance of missing it again.

6. What habit did I want to start earlier in life

I I wish I had started working on myself a little earlier. I learned things like studying, discipline, planning, etc. a long time ago. If I could go back today, I would have been young.

7. What fear held me back

It's strange but true, many of my decisions have been delayed because of one fear, do you know what it is? What if I fail? But today it seems that failure teaches us something new. Now I laugh, thinking about it, the fear that I thought was so big was not really that big. It was just a confusion in my mind.

8. What pride closed the door on me

I'm ashamed to admit it, but sometimes my own pride held me back. I didn't want to take anyone's help, which I could have done better if I had taken it. If it were today, I would have kept that pride aside and moved forward. Because we are human, it is not possible to do everything alone. In a word, we work together, whether we win or lose, if we all did it together, maybe it would have been successful.

Finally, friends say I want to say that while writing this competition essay, I rediscovered myself. I made myself understand a little what I lost and what I gained. I may have made many mistakes in life, missed many opportunities, but those mistakes have shaped me into who I am today. Without which, I might never have become who I am.

So, today I know that life starts changing right from the moment we want to change ourselves.

Anyway, friends, I shared some things from my own life with you. I hope you liked it. Everyone stay well and healthy. Thank you all.

Now I invited my friends join us this contest:- @ikwal @nevlu123 @aviral123

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