Returning to yourself from wrong choices

We all take some people very close to us at some point in our lives. Then logic does not work, experience does not speak. Only faith is in front. It seems that this person understands everything; this person will be by our side. But reality is not always like that picture. Some people come, take something from our lives, and disappear again silently.

Once upon a time, I used to try to remember them. I used to hold on to old words, old memories, old hopes, everything. I used to think that maybe everything would be okay again. But gradually, I realized that not all relationships are meant to be fixed. Some relationships are meant to teach. They teach who to trust and who to keep away from.

Forgetting the wrong people does not mean hating them. Rather, it means being a little kinder to yourself. When I started forgetting them, a light feeling came inside me. It felt like I was able to put down the burden I was carrying unnecessarily. Life became a little easier then, and my mind became a little calmer.

Today, I know that there is no need to hold on to all people. Those who are truly close to you stand the test of time. And those who were wrong gradually disappear from the crowd of memories. In their place comes my own care, my own limits, my own peace.

I forgot those people whom I chose wrongly. Because now I have learned to choose myself correctly. To value my feelings. And before keeping someone in my life, think about whether they are really bringing light to my life or just increasing the darkness. This understanding is perhaps the greatest achievement in life.

Please let me know in the comments how you feel about these little words of mine. Thank you all for taking the time to read the article.