First of all, thank you for mentioning me and making me aware of this issue. I was really heartbroken after reading your article. It was not easy for me to understand how difficult this situation is. Still, we often think that family means always being together, agreeing with our every decision. But reality does not always give that. Those who love us also have their own inner thoughts, they also have their own feelings and limitations.

After reading your story, I completely understood the feelings of that girl. In fact, leaving all our dreams, acquaintances and safe lives and starting over in a new country means building everything from scratch. And that is exactly what the girl did. But it is really very painful that even after doing so much, her mother's perspective is completely different. In fact, when this happens, pride, pain and disappointment increase even more. And that is what happened to the girl.

Still, I assume it is important for each person to shield their personal peace of mind. No, you willnot persuade or pressure anyone. Only whilst there may be love, understanding and compassion in the family, relationships live to tell the tale. Sometimes it is able to seem disobedient, occasionally it can be painful, yet expertise from a human perspective is always critical.

We all try to understand the feelings of family members and accept their limitations. Because love is not just about being, it is about understanding.