"Contest: Who Deserve To Be In Front Seat- Mother In-law Or Wife?".
Who do you think should always share the car front seat with the man? Mother in-law or Wife?
Mother-in-law deserves to sit in the front of the car with her son. A wife must respect her mother-in-law enough to allow her to sit in the front of the car whenever they are going to any occasion, unless the mother-in-law refuses that request; because she may not want to interrupt some conversations that may occur in the process between husband and wife since most of them do not concern her.
In the African context, some mothers-in-law prefer the front seat so that everyone within the community can see what is going on with her son, to let everyone be proud of him. I consider my wife part of my new family too, but the mother deserves the best seat because she will not be with us most of the time since we live in different areas; she may come for a visit.
What is Your reason for choosing either?
➡️My mother is my first priority. She wants to show the whole world that she is the first person who brought me into this life, so she wants to reap the fruits of her hard labor.
➡️If my mother paid for or owns the car I drive, she needs to sit in the front seat because it's her responsibility to sit beside me.
➡️Some mothers like to sit in the front due to certain health issues because they see that seat as more comfortable for them.
➡️Additionally, having conversations with her son is especially important for older mothers, as it helps them continue their active aging, and engaging in conversation with their son can bring them happiness.
Do you think this should be considered as an issue in the family?
It may not be an issue for one family, but it's an issue for another that must be addressed within the family. The wife must know what her mother-in-law wants so that they can have a happy home. They must understand each other when it comes to this aspect.
If this is done, there will not be an issue, and it can be solved amicably because some mothers-in-law tend to take things seriously, especially the things we tend to view with small eyes. Even if the wife is not careful, it may lead to divorce because her mother will think that she doesn't want her child to see her around him.
What is your advise to families going through this phase on deciding who should share the car front seat?
If the mother-in-law insists on sitting at the front of the car, the wife must allow her to do that so that she can enjoy a good stay with his son as much as she wants. Some mothers-in-law may do all the necessary things to ensure that their sons obey their commands and control them. The wife must have patience because, in my tribe, we say that a husband's house is full of knowledge where the wife can learn new things.
I would like to invite @sana-khan01, @ridwant and @wuddi to participate in this contest.
Saludos apreciado amigo. Creo que de alguna manera se relaciona el ocupar el asiento delantero con privilegios y preferencia. Cuando realmente es un hecho simbólico y representativo. La figura más importante en la vida de un hombre es su mujer y en consecuencia los hechos deben representar eso. Bendiciones y éxitos.