Contest: Who Deserve To Be In Front Seat- Mother In-law Or Wife?
🚗Who do you think should always share the front seat of the car with the man? The mother-in-law or the wife?
La esposa... / F
In our culture, in these Venezuelan lands, customs have determined that the wife always occupies the front seat, next to her husband. It is so normal, at least in the circles in which I move, that it has never been questioned, and I have never seen two women arguing over where to sit in a car driven by a man who is the son of one and the husband of the other.
What I have observed a few times is that the wife, in cases where she is aware that her husband has not seen his mother for some time, will say to her: “Sit in the front, mother-in-law, so you can enjoy being close to your son,” which is an indication that she does not attach much importance to it.
🚗What is your reason for choosing one over the other?
Compartiendo en casa / F
First and foremost, we must emphasize that love for one's mother is sacred, and we must lavish her with all our attention, both spiritual and material, as grateful children who are aware of everything this great woman has done for us. But it is a law of life that, when we marry or join with a partner, we have to break the umbilical cord with our old home to forge our own, together with the lady who, out of her own conviction, decided to accompany us in that life project.
From now on, our spouse will be the one who will be by our side to share joys and sorrows, to raise the children that come from that union, and to face the countless responsibilities that come with family life. It seems to us, then, that it is only natural that she should be the one sitting next to her husband in the car and in all the circumstances they face as a united family. And that in no way means that the importance of the mother has been minimized; it is only a matter of social representation and a simple distribution of space in the car.
🚗Do you think this should be considered a family issue?
No debería haber problema / F
In fact, we find it so superficial that it is unbelievable that any human being would feel belittled and become hostile just because of the seat they occupy in the car. As has always been said, love, whatever its nature, is demonstrated through spirituality, which translates into beautiful feelings and the most precious acts towards the loved one. A man can, of course, adore his mother and love his wife deeply, and for him, that will not be changed by the position they occupy in the car or anywhere else.
When someone values their feelings, their preponderance in a person's life, paying attention to such trivialities, it is because they are full of insecurities, because they want to impose a certain supremacy with an almost insane stubbornness, or because they simply feel contempt for the other person and long to remove them from their daily life as soon as possible.
🚗What advice would you give to families going through this phase to decide who should share the front seat of the car?
Dialogando con sensatez / F
As we have already pointed out, the most important thing to consider is that traveling in the front or back seat of the car does not represent any disadvantage for anyone. Love and its wonderful manifestations are not conditioned by such an insignificant factor; it is a sincere feeling that values the people we care about most in this world without selfishness or unhealthy interests.
A conscious mother, on the other hand, must accept that her son now has other priorities that require him to spend most of his time with a partner with whom he is probably willing to share the rest of his life, always keeping in mind the principles inherited from his childhood home with his parents. And a sensible wife must take into account that her husband comes from a family that instilled in him all the virtues he now possesses and is intimately linked to those essential experiences, therefore, she cannot separate them from their spiritual dimensions. When both women appreciate these and other complexities of human existence, they will realize that the obsession with the front seat of the car is a monumental frivolity.
I invite my friends:
@thaizmaita,
@davidesien y
@bahrol
Gracias por la invitación amigo @cruzamilcar, es muy interesante el tema , alguna vez permití sin ningún problema que mi querida suegra se colocara al lado de su hijo en el vehículo que conducia, por salud de ella, es más cómodo y con todo cariño lo permití, estoy de acuerdo que : "..., nos parece tan superficial que resulta increíble que alguien se sienta menospreciado o se vuelva hostil solo por el asiento que ocupa en el coche". Así somos los venezolanos "¡Hurra por eso!".
Fue un placer leer su excelente presentación; saludos cordiales y exito.🙋♀️🇨🇱
Eso es normal, que la esposa sin ningún problema ceda el asiento delantero a la suegra y nunca ha sido motivo de discusión esas cosas. Gracias por sus comentarios, amiga, los cuales reflejan su atenta lectura. Un gran saludo.
Creo que todo se reduce al respeto y la comprensión. Que la esposa se siente en el asiento delantero puede simbolizar la colaboración y la igualdad. También es importante tener en cuenta los sentimientos de la suegra y mostrarle aprecio. Tal vez el esposo podría alternar los asientos o cederle el asiento delantero a su madre de vez en cuando, como gesto de cariño y respeto. En definitiva, la comunicación y la empatía son fundamentales para resolver estos problemas y mantener la armonía familiar.
Te envío mis mejores deseos. ¡Que tengas un día maravilloso!
Lo ideal es no convertir algo tan simple en una controversia que puede alterar la armonía familiar. Es una actitud pueril que solo demuestra alguna mala intención escondida. Gracias por sus palabras, amiga. Saludos.
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Le agradezco su buena disposición para brindar apoyo a esta publicación. Siempre es gratificante que se reconozca nuestro trabajo. Un gran saludo.
Excelente participación estimado amigo. Tal como lo dices, es ley de la vida y de Dios que nos unamos en pareja siendo una sola carne. Considero que el hecho de que la mujer ocupe el asiento delantero no guarda relación con el hecho de amar si no más bien con cualidad y roles específicos en la relación. Bendiciones para ti.
Así es, no le veo ninguna importancia a la ubicación dentro del automóvil. El amor y el respeto se demuestran de otra forma. Gracias por su lectura y sus excelentes palabras, amigo. Saludos.