Contest || Who Deserve To Be In Front Seat — Mother-In-law or Wife?
Last month, I was stepping out of my room when I saw a family preparing to go shopping. The husband opened the front door of the car for his mother to sit. Immediately, the wife became angry and said:
“Honey, why is Mama going to occupy my space? The front seat is mine and shouldn’t be shared by anyone not even Mama!”
The husband tried to explain that the front seat meant nothing, that it was just a seat. But the woman insisted that the front seat was her right and her place. She became upset and went back into the house. That was the end of what should have been a beautiful shopping day.
Who Should Share the Car Front Seat Mother-in-law or Wife?
In most African countries, the wife deserves the front seat. Not because she is older or more important, but because she is the man’s partner, it shows a symbol of unity, commitment, and companionship.
Sitting beside her husband allows them to discuss family issues, plan how to settle bills, and enjoy little moments together while driving. For example, if the husband is sweating and not a professional driver, the wife can easily take a handkerchief and wipe his face. That small gesture shows love and care, something natural between husband and wife.
What Is My Reason for Choosing the Wife?
The wife and husband are one team. The front seat symbolizes their togetherness and gives them space to connect. It’s not about disrespecting the mother-in-law; it’s about maintaining the bond between husband and wife.
But that doesn’t mean the mother-in-law isn’t important. She deserves honor and respect because she is the foundation of the family, the woman who raised the man and made him who he is today.
Sometimes, the wife can even sacrifice her seat for the mother-in-law, especially when the elderly woman needs more comfort. That’s a loving gesture that shows humility and care.
Should This Be Considered an Issue in the Family?
No, this shouldn’t be a problem in any family. Everyone should know his or her place in the home. The wife should understand her role as a partner, and the mother should recognize her place as the respected elder.
However, sometimes the wife can willingly share the front seat. That simple act shows love and maturity because sharing is caring. There’s no need for argument when love leads.
My Advice to Families Facing This Situation
Peace is more important than who sits where. The husband should act wisely, respect both women and never show favoritism. The wife should remain humble, and the mother-in-law should be understanding.
When there’s love, wisdom, and maturity, even one seat can be shared happily.
In the end, love should drive the car, not pride because peace is the best seat in any family.
I will love to use this opportunity to invite my friends to join this contest.
@tempestinyang, Mercybliss,@ukpono and @jemilatbuhari.
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I vote for the mother-in-law. I mean, that woman is a force of nature.
Of course, in a politically correct nation, one would solve the problem by shoving the man in the backseat and giving the ladies the seats of honor.
I like your idea. Thanks for comment. So many people won't agree with you. However, that's exactly what I would do.
Wow interesting my honourable @tempestinyang
Wow really thanks for your contribution and reading my post. Dear @yintercept.
Upvoted! Thank you for supporting witness @jswit.
Saludos apreciada amiga. Ciertamente el hecho de ocupar el asiento delantero no se trata de privilegios si no de un símbolo de unión. Es un hecho representativo. Te deseo éxitos
Thank you so much @elider11 for agreeing with me and reading my post, i really appreciate your support.
Por mi parte nunca tuve problemas con mi querida suegra, ya no está en este plano terrenal, alguna vez le cedí el puesto delantero porque le dolían las rodillas y preferimos que se sentara adelante con su hijo al volante; todo depende de las prioridades de acuerdo a las necesidades.
Saludos cordiales y exito.
Wow i really love your bond with your husband, you are indeed a help mate.
Thank you so much @thizmaitafor reading my post.