I told my child's father: Your son got into trouble. He said: great

One day, the teacher called me to school and said: Your child broke the school glass. I was very angry after listening, apologized to the teacher and gave the child a lesson.

After returning home, I told my husband: Your son got into trouble and broke the school glass. He didn't expect him to say: It's great, I don't have to worry about his son breaking the glass of someone else's house in the future.

Then he called his son to the front and asked: Why did you break the school glass?

The son said: I accidentally kicked it and broke it when I was playing football in PE class. I don't know why I just kicked it there.

Husband said: Do you know where you can't play football now?

The son said: I got it.

Since then, his son has never kicked the glass of other people's homes again. I was actually quite curious, so I asked my son why?

The son said that since that time, he would pay special attention to the glass area and avoid it, so naturally he would not kick the glass again.

What is going on here?

Because when the father faced the child doing something wrong, the first sentence was happily saying: "It's great", the magic of this sentence lies in:

1. You will find that it is no longer so annoying, and no matter how big things are;
2. Your motivation to solve problems is stronger.