If you want to teach children with high EQ, parents should get rid of these 4 bad habits first.
Although parents now attach great importance to their child’s IQ, they also focus on cultivating his EQ. Not to mention making him sleek and sleek in the future, at least don't be stunned, and offend others when he speaks.
But if you really want to cultivate a baby with high emotional intelligence, first of all, you have to avoid the four most common mistakes in education.
In fact, many times, conflicts that seem to be serious can be easily resolved by just two people sitting down and having a heart-to-heart chat.
1. Never communicate
Communication is the best way to resolve and prevent conflicts. But many parents are holding the air of adults. They clearly start for the good of their children, but they always feel that I don't need to let you know for your own good. As a result, misunderstandings have been caused and conflicts have grown.
2.Scold the child without any words
As soon as some parents get angry, they can't hold back the words in their mouths, and they will vent anything unpleasant. Something like "raising a dog knows how to wag its tail to me, what's the use of raising you", "how can you do nothing, you are as stupid as a pig", "what kind of books are you stupid like this? It will waste my money." !"
These sharp words are like a sharp knife slammed into the child's heart, making him wonder if he is really bad, and he is slowly struck down to inferiority and self-closing.
3. Doting without a bottom line
Parents’ beloved sons have far-reaching plans. If you only covet the enjoyment in front of him, and pamper him with no bottom line, sooner or later the child will become lawless, and in the end he will smash his head fiercely.
At that time, he should blame you for not disciplining him at his age!
4. Poor management of your emotions
However, many parents dare not lose their temper when they are in the company, so they accumulate all the bad emotions at home and explode.
In such an environment, children become irritated and often lose control of their emotions. Then he will never be a person with high EQ!
I have noticed that many of the most successful people are very good with people and just smart enough to realise that other people are smarter.
As a parent myself, patience is absolutely crucial and the hardest thing to maintain consistently.