SELF-EFFECTIVENESS. OVERCOMING HARD TIMES
Hello, friends of steemit, how are you? There are times when we must remind ourselves of certain things, so that we do not forget them and after reflecting, express our thoughts to help others. Because in this sense, self-love and self-esteem are the seed from which unconditional love for other people is born.
What does all this have to do with self-efficacy then? And all these, what does it consist of?
There is a video, made by the musician and youtuber Jaime Altozano, which has greatly inspired me to write about this topic. This video can be found (captain obvious 😂) on his Youtube channel and if you want to see it, although in reality the central theme of his video is another, you can watch it exactly here at minute 0: 30. The video is in Spanish.
You can assign a task to different people and although both have the same capacity, the same information and although both are capable of coping with the task, one can achieve it but the other can be totally overwhelmed.
This is actually a personal reflection from Jaime to another video that I personally have not seen, which is this in case you want to take a look at it.
Self-efficacy is not a value that is really instilled in most when we are children, at least with the people I have known. One of the moments in which I realized that few or none of the people I knew possessed self-efficacy was when, due to world-situation issues, we were led to forms of work and study that we were not used to.
Many collapsed, as they could not see the best way to cope with their difficulties. But in that process, I was able to realize that this is really a bug.
All people have self-efficacy, only that not all of us present it for the same purpose. One person can be self-effective for cooking, another for work. And beware it is not the same to speak of self-efficacy than of talent, which would already be the natural ability to do something
But how difficult is it to develop self-efficacy as a value for our life? The world will not always stay in the same position, change will always be a common denominator in the life of each and everyone.
That is why developing self-efficacy will determine the power of a person to overcome difficult tests for which they are not especially used or that flatly represent a cross in themselves.
In my opinion, to develop self-efficacy:
It is necessary to have a solid base of self-esteem, which will be in charge of making the ...
Self-confidence, to know that we are capable of overcoming obstacles by simply being human beings, perfect beings with the ability to evolve and therefore ...
Be respected for our human condition, real and entirely worthy. Self-respect, as well as all these values can be compared to a flower ...
Source. A flower, because it is born from within and only then can it exist outside.
Self-love is the real pillar on which our life is built. Everything that is outside the limit of unconditional love towards oneself, will only lead us to a stormy path full of sadness.
LOVE YOURSELF SO MUCH
** Note: ** The art is made by me, edited with the mobile tool Poster Maker.
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thank you for your words of motivation, self love is definitely where it begins in order to be able to love others and your surroundings, if we're gonna make any positive impact on today's society.
Thank you for your comment. Effectively, that's right. Unfortunately many of us grew up not knowing what self-love was. The good thing is that we can always learn!