How to be a lovable child? These two core indicators cannot be less

Two core indicators that children are likable:

• To what extent are others willing to get along with our children;
• The other is how willing the child is to actively build friendships with others.
  In other words, how do we build and maintain friendship.

We have established a relationship, and if others feel comfortable, they will be willing to spend more time with us.

So how to build friendship? The most important thing about friendship is that we can break the fear of children getting along with others.

Why do you say that?

Because when each of us meets a stranger for the first time, we will inevitably feel anxious in our hearts, so there will be a process of adaptation.

If we do not give our children this process of adaptation, that is to say, the more anxious to push the children into the crowd, the more the children will have more social fears.

But if we allow children to adapt slowly, and take the initiative to show them how to communicate and play with other children, it will be very easy for children to walk into the crowd to establish relationships.

Our parents also need to pay attention to the fact that children's interpersonal skills cannot be judged completely based on the number of friends, and certainly not too few.

Although some children don't have many friends, their relationship with friends is generally deeper, which also shows that children's interpersonal skills are actually very strong.