Amidst thousands of disappointments, you are my only mental peace
Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
No one in the world may be happy in all aspects. Everyone has some kind of unrest in their mind, the pain of not getting. Still, even in the midst of this not getting and disappointment, a little peace can be found somewhere in the mind. That peace, happiness cannot be bought with any money or things. But for that, a good-hearted person is needed. Whose needs will be less, who will love more. The best example of this is our own life partner. With whom we spend most of our life. We spend half of our life sharing the joys and sorrows of life. However, peace can be found in this half of life only when the person with us is good, his thinking and mentality will be able to understand all the situations. If this is an exception, there is no hope of peace in the life of that family or that person. Nowadays, most people are in mental tension with their life partner. Because most people are not happy with their life partner. Even if they spend some time well in the beginning, later they have conflicts over various things. Also, due to terrible problems like illicit relationships or extramarital affairs, divorce is increasing in the society.
Every person in the world hopes to spend the rest of his life with a good life partner. For this, he spends the first half of his life studying and working so that he can be happy with his life partner. But despite all this, some people's lives are a little different. Even if they have money, they do not get a person who is like their heart. They get a different person as their life partner, due to which peace does not return to their family. I think "To be happy in life, money is not necessary, a life partner who is like their heart". Who can understand all my days and accept hundreds of hardships with me with a smile. However, it is very difficult to find a girl with such a mentality nowadays. Because nowadays, illicit relationships and greed for money have made people equal to animals. As a result, everyone gives more priority to success and money.
Like everyone, I am also committed to spending the rest of my life happily with my life partner. This new chapter of life began 2 months ago. The life ahead revolves around him. I always ask Allah Almighty to keep us together until death and the Hereafter. May there be no doubt between us. May we always be by each other's side in happiness and sorrow. May we understand each other's mental state. I married him only considering his mentality and thinking that I can live well with him. I did not see any of these at the time of marriage. Maybe Allah Almighty accepted the desires of my heart and united me with him. I hope I can spend my whole life with him in peace.
Only a girl can keep a boy good, and a boy becomes the worst because of a girl. Most suicides in the world are due to relationship problems between boys and girls. That is why the rule of our society should be to marry only when they are of marriageable age, and not to force marriage for success. Sometimes we spend some time with our beloved person that remains in our memories for the rest of our lives. Maybe remembering those moments, the two of us spend the rest of our lives together. The cold gaze of a loved one can easily remove hundreds of troubles and mental stress. A little smile on his face can remove all the sorrows of the heart. When I return from the office with a lot of fatigue, just seeing the face of my beloved person seems to remove the fatigue of the whole day. Our Islam says, "If you are in trouble, get married, Allah will remove your troubles and give you success." The owner of sustenance is Allah Almighty. That is why it is the responsibility of every parent to marry his child when he reaches the age of marriage.
That is why we should always pray to the Almighty Creator more and more so that he sends our life partners according to our mentality. With whom we can always share all the words of our hearts. Suddenly, I felt like sharing some things of life with you, so I wrote them down. I hope you all feel good. Everyone will be well and healthy. I will see you again with a new post.







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