When the relationship is not of rules, but of the "soul".
Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
Most of the relationships in the world are created from social norms or rules. For example, your son's wife is your mother-in-law, or your daughter's husband is your husband. These relationships have actually been around since the beginning of the world. Because of these various standards of relationships, our way of talking and moving around with everyone is also different. Just as we cannot speak to everyone in all languages, we cannot share everything with everyone. However, there are some relationships that actually do not always follow these rules of society. Because, we have relationships with some people that come from the heart. These relationships cannot be destroyed even if we want to. However, some relationships are already a little beautiful. One of these is the relationship between a sister-in-law and a brother-in-law. As there is respect in the relationship, there is love, and on the other hand, like friends, the thoughts of two people can be shared with each other. I may not be able to tell you how others spend their relationship with their brother-in-law, but my brother-in-law's relationship with me is like a friend. I share everything with him.
First of all, I myself chose a boy for my elder sister's marriage. As a result, I have developed a deep relationship with him. Sometimes we talk funny and sometimes we go to different places like two friends. It seems like this is my elder brother-in-law. Actually, some relationships do not just follow the rules of society, it comes from the soul or the heart. When I am not at home, my brother-in-law does not want to come to our house. His condition is that he will come and visit only when I am there, otherwise he will not come. That is why most of the time, I come from Dhaka and come to our house. Sometimes I joke with my brother-in-law about such things that cannot be done even with a friend. I also share all my personal things with him.
This was two days before Eid. I called my brother and asked him to come to the market to meet me. Then my brother said that if you feed me a kilo of jilapi, then we will meet. 😄 I agreed. Then on Saturday, I went to meet my brother on the market day in our town of Kumarkhali. Basically, I had to give him a few things, for this purpose. After visiting the market, we went to a jilapi shop. The interesting thing about the market day is that there are many hot and hot things available here. The real taste of which can be understood. When we went, we saw hot and hot jilapi being fried. It was so fun to sit and eat hot and hot jilapi. First, I started eating half a kilo of jilapi. However, the sad thing is that I cannot eat much sweet food because of my head problem. Eating a little sweet gives me a headache and other feelings 😥. That is why I cannot eat much even if I want to. I ate two pieces and did not eat anymore. My brother and another brother ate the rest.
Then I bought another half a kilo for the house. I was told that I would pay the price of the jilapi, but when I went to pay, my brother gave me the money, but he did not let me pay. He said, I was chatting with you on the phone. Later, I did not insist anymore. Later, the two of us went together to have date juice. I paid for it. After spending a beautiful moment with my brother, I went towards the house. Actually, not only today, most of the time I spend such a nice time with my brother-in-law. We have fun and chat. Maybe like me, you too will spend a nice time with your favorite people.
This is the end of today. See you again with a new post. Everyone stay well and healthy.








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