Wednesday-Educational Theme-How to communicate with anyone Confidently !| 20% beneficiary @steemit-pak.
AssalamOAlikum!
My name is Safa Rizwan. I am here at #SteemitPakistan because of my mate @vvarishayy. This is my first post on @steemit-pak.
I hope you all are fine and doing your best to enjoy your life.
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I am here to share with you all about 3 magical tricks what I learnt and follow to speak confidently and fluently.These three psychological tricks help you to interact with anyone and communicate with full confidence.
Before giving you a tips, I want to ask you a question that what is the awkward moment during converstaion with anyone?[you start a thinking process now :)]
I answer you that when you have no idea what to say and reply and you lack of words to speak. Yes, it happens and most of us relates that Awkward Silence!!!
If we talk about human psychology, we all know many thoughts are always running in our mind and we never able to tell and discuss it. Our tongue stuck to its position, unfortunately. First, we need to know why it is happen with the help of first magical trick.
1- No Filter Approach
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First understand that what is filter. When we talk with anyone, we have so much to talk but we never speak because of filter fix in our mind that stop us to speak. That, Filter works on our self made principle that we want to show our personality cool, impressive and stylish because every person want to see himself impressive. So, we think to speak only those that impress others. Unfortunately, to display ourselves cool we never speak what is going on in our mind. Remove this filter and speak what you feel, what you like and what you want. It never be embarass yourself. Lack of communication leads to many loses in many fields like bussiness, dealing, presenting etc. Here, we nees to understand that :
|||Freedom Of Speak is our Right|||
If you think that you speak dumb and not impressive, it is not. In start, you will feel it like that but when it become your habit to give automative response, it will benefit you in many ways.
2- Prat Fall Effect
It states that Likeability increases when you make mistakes.
Yes, it is. I will explain you and you relate it also. If you display yourself perfect, a person with mistakes free, People will not like you more because they can't relate you. You show yourself a unique and different person and sometimes uniqueness only hurt us too. If you show yourself more human, because humans make a mistakes,people will relate you and like you by thinking that He/she is like us. They will talk you and it really helps your subconsious mind to speak without any thought of that what will people think about you.
When you start speaking fluently about your thoughts, Your likeability increases more.
Yes, during converstion you will not present yourself a perfect man, your mind will not work on artificial sentences but it will work on natural occuring sentences and helps you to speak what you have in your mind. People will relate you and conversation will start from both sides.
3- Conversation Threading
Suppose, you are in a party and someone say you that everymorning he do excercise daily and you will reply that Oh I don't like excercise and I have no time to do it. This will give a negative impression on other person and ultimately, he stops talking with you. If you reply in a sense that Its good that you do it, appreciate him and ask its advantages or about institute. You can take out many trunks and branches in his sentence. This will make communication more effective.
By word "THREADING", itself shows that take out many parts or break a sentence in many partitions. If we follow this trick and during conversation we apprecite other person, it will emerge a person to speak with you comfortably. If a person becomes comfortable with you, it will be easy for both of to share thoughts.
These tricks will help you, when you are doing any kind of bussiness, when you are dealing with a customers, when you wants to make freinds. It will help to travel from a world of introverts to a world of extroverts.
Hope you guyz like it.
Thank You For Reading it.
your's freind,
@safarizwan