Social Studies Lesson 10: Forms and types of marriage

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The essence of a marriage is to unite a man and a woman based on certain terms and conditions that are recognized as true. In general, the validity of a marriage depends on a place inhabited by a resident. This is the form of a rule that has been set by a community. Due to different places of residence, different rules and different ways of holding a marriage. From this, three types of marriages are formed.

1. Religious marriage.

Speaking of marriage according to religion is inseparable from the religion adopted by someone, where when they want to hold marriage there are several conditions that have been determined by their respective religions, this is not separated from the role of religious leaders. Like our country in Indonesia, there are some religions recognized by the state so that from the form of religious marriage type is also born several forms of marriage. Among other things :
  • Islamic.
    Islam has set the procedures for its implementation through the Qur'an, Hadith. and the Ulema Agreement. In Islam there are conditions or elements that must be completed during the wedding procession so that the marriage is valid and obtains a marriage certificate from the office of religious affairs. These elements are: the existence of a prospective husband and wife, ijab kabul (handover), a guardian from the female side. and witnesses.

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The wedding procession usually takes place at the bride's house, mosque and religious affairs office
Marriage is not just talking about the relationship between a man and a woman that is legally recognized by religion and state law, and not only talking about the biological needs of men and women, but marriage in Islam is closely related to living conditions. the human soul, spirituality, outward and inner human values, and the existence of a truth. Not only that. Marriage in an Islamic perspective is an obligation that must be followed which is a form of faith and devotion to the Creator.

  • Christian.
    The legal basis for Christian marriage is based on the Bible where they believe that spiritual union in the form of marriage will gain added value if it takes place in a church after fulfilling the applicable requirements. Marriage is something sacred because they believe in God who binds husband and wife as well.
    In the Christian wedding procession there are terms marriage blessings, songs of praise, sacred promises.

  • Buddha
    Buddhism is also a recognized religion in Indonesia. Here they also have a procedure to obtain the validity of a marriage by means of a prospective husband and wife contacting the temple administrator to get instructions for guidance, direction and marriage procedures.
    In the process there are several terms. some of them, votive readings, tribute to the Tri Ratna, installation of rings, ribbons and yellow cloth. commendation offering.

2. Traditional Marriage

Customary marriage is a form of marriage based on the customary rules of an area inhabited by upholding the cultural values ​​of the ancestral heritage.

For indigenous peoples, marriage is a very important event, this is because they consider there is a relationship involving the families of the bride and groom. Also included in customary law, marriage does not only concern people who are still alive, but also involves the spirits and ancestors of both parties of the bride and groom.

3. Marriage in the form of a state

In our country the registration of marriage is one of the principles of national marriage law. the existence of the principle of registration of marriages is related to and determines a marriage. This implies that in addition to following the provisions of each religion or belief, it is also a condition for the validity of the marriage.

I need to explain, marriage in the form of religion and customs in Indonesia cannot be separated from marriage in the form of a state. This means that every type of marriage must be registered with the authorized office

There are several countries that have legalized and regulated interfaith marriage by submitting an application to the court. The application for permission to continue the marriage is submitted by the prospective husband and wife. This kind of marriage applies only by state law. there are also those who call this marriage a court marriage because it must obtain court permission from a country.

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The form and type of marriage of our parents before becoming husband and wife for us, the majority of Muslims in Aceh are almost the same, the role of religion number 1 and customs go hand in hand. so in this case to complete the task I can only interview mother, and even then with few opportunities because of age and health.

Their wedding procession in the past was simple and solemn in front of the two families and the invitees, in other words, it could be said that their wedding was simple but had a luxurious value because it had been carefully prepared.
Their marriage belongs to the type of Eleutherogamy.

5 Types of marriage

1. Eleutherogamy

This is a type of marriage performed by Muslims. This marriage system has no obligations or prohibitions on members of certain groups. here only assesses compatibility, the eleuththerogamy system has a basic principle, namely the prohibition of marriage with offspring, stepmother, mother-in-law, and wife's sister.

2. Polygamy

Polygamy is a marriage carried out by a husband with more than one person. this can happen at the same time or at another time. In Indonesia, polygamy is recognized as legal in the eyes of state law if the husband has met the requirements for polygamy.

3. Homogamous

Homogamous marriage is closely related to culture and customs. where a marriage that has a special view and level of dignity towards its potential partner, as was the case with marriages between kings in the past. a noble man marries a noble woman.

4. Cross mariage

Cross marriage is a unique marriage, we can judge this for ourselves when there is a marriage between cousins, namely the child of the mother's brother or the child of the father's sister.

5. Monogamy

Monogamous marriage is a marriage that provides a standard or limit to the husband or wife. husband or wife is only allowed to have one partner.

4 Reasons to get married.

  1. The first reason is seen from the foundation of Islam. A person's marriage is already human nature, where biological needs must be met in a lawful and honorable way, as well as fulfill religious demands for those who are physically and mentally capable.

  2. Live together to understand each other and work together to achieve a common goal.

  3. One of the most common goals of marriage is to have children as a successor to the ideals and stories of parents. this is important. all parents really hope to be blessed with children so that some say, There is no happiness in a complete household without the presence of children.

  4. Need close friends to be able to share with each other who can provide new perspectives and colors in life, friends who are loyal to accompany and support in difficult and happy times. Having a good wife or husband can make a person have a healthier mentality and can avoid the risk of depression.

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