Dear friend @fjjrg, You mentioned that the motivational part of charity is that the person who exercises it feels useful and gets the satisfaction of helping someone in need, the recipient feels grateful and important, which I agree with you. You also said that he or she should do some favors without help and coercion which is a very nice word. You have also said that regarding the spreading of charitable deeds done, there are two positions and one of them is prudence which is correct. I appreciate your complete presentation and greet you.