SEC17 WK:#1: Forgiveness unites family

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First of all I would love to talk about forgiveness singularly, forgiveness is a art of ignoring and pardoning someone else for wronging you intentionally or accidentally, is the act of quenching every thought of revenge or anger you have against someone by dropping every grudge you hold against them.

Forgiveness is one of the best virtue that anyone can obtain, this is because it will help you physically mentally socially and even spiritually. In fact I don't talk about maturity without including key features like the ability to forgive.

On the other hand I want to talk about family the world family is not a new term to any of us because as long as we exist we have a family even though some people or family members must have passed away that doesn't stop the fact that we had family members. Also they orphans I also believe that they have family members just that the link with your family member is so far that they seems lost. In summary as long as you are born by someone definitely you have a family member.

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Forgiveness is a very awesome attribute because it is known to unite people worldwide in fact forgiveness is the first step of unity because if you can't forgive and individual or friend you cannot peacefully unite with
such individual no matter the case scenario. This is to say for every United family they have a forgiving heart towards each other this is usually because of the love and togetherness the share

As human beings we are prone to act differently because despite our relationship we have something different inside us so therefore our perspective and behaviors might seem different than that of others which might trigger misunderstanding and arguments or even a serious fight. So therefore I don't believe there is a relationship or family that haven't experienced misunderstanding and quarrels but the good thing is after this misunderstanding cases or quarrel the tends to be love and forgiveness between them and that's why family relationship tends to last very very much.

So therefore in summary I would advise every family and every type of relationship whether personal nuclear extended religious social and political families to try and insert the act of forgiveness among themselves so that they can easily progress and reach that destined destination and goal as a faster period of time.

Talking about things that could unite a family there are many but I will talk about one of you that are very vital and was practically used in my family so unite us and I can say to you this technique or method has been uniting us and I believe it will still keep uniting us despite our distance or our location.

One thing my parents don't joke with was the act of doing things together, doing things together is a very effective way of bonding a family permanently this is because he buys you time to spend with your family and also it's create memory that would is trigger and make every member of the family want to spend more time together.

One of the things a family can do together or would I say should to together is eating together. Throughout my childhood my mom never allowed us is separately or from a different place despite the fact that we had so many plates, during my childhood my mom to put our food in a single plate although bigger than other plates. Should tell us to sit around and eat together although when I was younger I didn't like it because I love to living privately but now that I am a grown up I actually miss those days because of the memories it came with.

It's usually very funny I'm very interesting eating together with your siblings despite that there are a lot of food in the pot we will still play games or who should get more food from the plate and who is a better a better eater than the other. All this activities causes me goosebump whenever I remember there and I must say they should be practiced at every home to solidify the family unity and bond.

One other very important attributes that we are should practice in our family especially in a religious family is to make it a habit to always pray together, praying together as a family I deeply has his own special blessings and Grace because the unity of a family would be very pleasing to God the Creator because that is the reason he wants us to get a family.

Praying together also solidify the family because while praying every member of the family Prays for their self and the rest of the family until every member has successfully says their prayer points. This alone will make every member of the family happier and feel loved because your good wishes gives them hope that's someone still and support them despite the challenges they go through the day-to-day activities.

The family is a very important branch of the society this is because most traits, attitude and characters are learned from the family, so therefore if the family teaches its member to forgive then we should expect a society were forgiveness is practiced regularly and where peace precise totaly.

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