Intuition of babies
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The universe of babies is considered the most exciting world in human life. And, for them absolutely everything is new, changes are constant and, the mind of these little ones lives a fascinating reality. What's more, when they are born, their brain has 100 billion neurons, quadrupling those of an adult.
Although the brain of a baby is very interesting, I consider that the behavior they develop is much more so, as well as, the way in which they interpret the functioning of everything that is in the environment where they are.
While it is true that, parents are the attachment figure that they have in their first days and months of life, at the time of settling their skills and knowledge, the curiosity that they develop on their own is a particularity that they do not instruct since it is totally natural and they express it on their own. When a person has a baby, they discover that there are babies that everything in their environment makes them smile, they have the need to be touching a goal and, there are also those who cry when someone unknown approaches them.
Now, to better understand the world of children I share that, from the first day of their birth, they begin to decipher all the signs they detect in what is in their environment and thanks to this, they admirably express their emotions.
For its part, child psychology deciphers this as the first physiological need that a baby has and the cause of this development is related to his instinct to encode what is a threat or reliability to him.
To verify how accurate this psychology theory is, I gave myself the task of relating to two babies, one 8 months old and the other 10 months old because, it seemed to me that it is a very sophisticated reasoning for someone who is just starting life. However, the cognitive reaction I noticed in them showed me that they are able to understand who they can trust for it, when we see that a child cries when someone holds him, beyond thinking that it is a spoiled reaction of the little one, we must see that he reacted that way because he feels insecure and if we want the baby to grow with confidence, Do not expose it to something uncomfortable for them.
A study conducted by specialists in child psychology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (United States), showed that babies interfere directly and quickly in the quality interaction with other people where 3 very specific elements are evidenced which reveal how is the intuition of babies.
The first element is through the exchange of saliva and, this is considered the most decisive signal that babies emit when expressing if they consider the person who is touching them as someone to trust for them. In view of this, if we carry a baby and his reaction is drooling, he is telling us that he feels confident towards us.
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In case the baby is more than two years old, we are going to offer them a pacifier that we were eating and, if we see that he rejects it, we have the alert that the little one does not have such a close relationship with us but at this point we must be clear that, it is only applied to use when there is a very close bond, that is, parents, siblings, grandparents, uncles or cousins. They do not involve friends because, at that age, they still do not measure that closeness. Keep in mind that, for children, sharing food with their parents and siblings stimulates the bond of trust.
Referring to the second element we can highlight that this is related to the kisses transmitted by babies. When they feel trust towards someone, they will always voluntarily seek to kiss, extend their arms and react affectively to the caresses we give them.
As a curious fact I share that, when they are between 8 months or the first year of life they give many kisses with saliva to their parents, siblings, grandparents or uncles and if for some reason this gesture on their part at no time has this ingredient, we immediately have the indication that it is necessary to improve the relationship with them if we do not want them to begin to isolate themselves.
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Now it's time to talk about the third element, and it's related to how babies learn to trust based on another experience they've had previously. An example of this is that, if in the past they experienced an emotion of suffering with someone, when this person approaches them, they will react with anguish and, their eyes will open to the maximum causing that in fractions of seconds they break down in tears and their movements are exaggerated.
This is because, they tacitly remember when someone transmits love, evil and even, leave them alone in a moment while they were taking care of or feeding him therefore, when they feel that this person who hurt them in the past is close, he will immediately reject him and trust will be very difficult to recover.
Finally, although babies are very vulnerable little human beings, they are masterfully powerful in their instincts because, all the time they are nourishing themselves with love and starting from this feeling is that, they learn to know the world of security that someone can transmit to them and best of all, they do it through the natural curiosity that characterizes them.
Always remember that, they are an authentic learning machine, there will be no better human reader of gestures like them because, the subtlety they have to perceive emotions and intentions, is admirable in view of this, let's do everything possible to guarantee their stability and for this, we learn to decipher their intuitions.
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