Women Are Hard To Understand
Well, in my opinion, if you have a motive to continue, you just have to be sure, if it is your own belief, that she will change. If it is fifty-fifty, it is better not to, so you can continue, if you are sure enough. And now she is showing signs, that she has changed now. Well, that is okay, but it still has to be tested by time, before getting married.
Give it a few months, so that time can test whether or not it has changed. Because as far as I know, I apologize, most of them are not absolute. Cheating is like a ** "Pick" ** sign, there is a virus. And it is not easy to cure it, it might flare up again at some point. But if she herself is determined, then maybe we can accept it.
But that's universal, it doesn't mean that women cheat more often, or men cheat more often, yes, there are many things for example. There are women who are attracted to other men, because they feel that with their men, they don't get a place to confide in you, it just so happens that she wants to confide in you. Maybe she feels that she doesn't fit, she can't, someone stops by.
Because like this, when we are free, someone stops by and gives meaning, that person will be strong in our hearts. So, in order for the relationship to last, look at your partner's Facebook, WhatsApp status, "Owhh, he's upset". Call him immediately, let us be the ones to fill his heart, so that we are stronger in his heart. So once again, cheating is never intended, the intention is always because of a slip. So always be there when he is free, then your figure will be strong again in his heart.
The mystery of a woman can make many differences appear with a man. If you focus on differences, it will end in arguments, even separation. Focusing on similarities will only make your life boring quickly, so make differences as learning new things. Then make the similarities as fun to make the relationship more united, Men and women are different, that's the first. The second, the differences are to be appreciated. And the third, can complement each other. If women are happy, the household will be happy. I remember a very extraordinary statement
"The best way to love your child is to love his mother"
If the mother is happy enough, and feels loved, automatically the mother will be patient with her child, and love her child too. So as the head of the household, as a husband, it is very easy for you to understand your wife, or your woman, and it is no longer a mystery, when you are willing to improve your listening skills. When we listen more, we become more sensitive to what she wants.
I also ask for help from women, when you tell a story, or share so that it is not long-winded. Give a pause between each sentence, Stop! pause for a moment. So that men will increase their frequency to listen again. Because without a semicolon, we men will also get bored.
So that way, we men finally like it, addicted to hearing it, because you are boring. Well, then communication will be strong. When communication is strong, there is no more guessing, no more assumptions, so that men understand their women.
The differences between men and women will always exist, as well as logic and feeling, like men, like women. When men want to be recognized, women want to be understood. When women are difficult to understand, that's where men's sensitivity is tested.
Greetings always compact.
By @midiagam