Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 116: My opinion on gender reveal during pregnancy.

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Do you accept gender reveal party? Back up your answers with facts.

Some people like to organize a party once they know the gender of their unborn child through the scan they normally do when the doctor asks them to do so. I am the type of person who does not like a social lifestyle, and I do not condemn it because individuals' choices are different. I appreciate every gender God gives me because their success is what I need to focus on.

Once they reveal the gender of their children, some people would invite family and friends to celebrate with them. I prefer to organize a prayer or pray alone for my wife to deliver safely, whether male or female, because every child is a child to me.

Do you think everyone should adopt this trend?

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I do not encourage everyone to adopt this style because it's something that may either turn negative or positive. Like I said above, some people enjoy this lifestyle so much that they even post it on social media for the world to see. It is necessary to keep it a secret because if the gender we are expecting does not happen, we may feel guilty in our minds, and our discussion will be the talk of the town.

Adopting this trend would not favor us because it's better to stay low-key until your favorite son or daughter is born.

How safe is this trend considering the society we live in.

Evil eyes are everywhere, especially in the world we are living in. There are some bad people within families residing in Nigeria and African as a whole. Once you reveal the gender of your unborn child to them, some may be happy to hear this good news, while others may be sad. Those who are not happy may visit traditional herbalists either to harm the baby with the mother, whereas others may attempt to delay the pregnancy from delivery.

We should never reveal it until the child is delivered so that we can be a successful parents.

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Share your general thought on this topic, if possible your kind advice to people who are yet to join this trend.

It is not necessary to join this trend because our privacy is very important to us; we must keep it safe from bad people. Even if we successfully have a child and the gender we believe it will be is ours, it does not always come true. It may be a disgrace in our eyes because people will laugh at us. So, it is better to keep it to ourselves and not talk about revealing it to everyone who wants our downfall.

This is very common among women, and they should stay away from it. They should never force their husbands to do it for them because not all males like this celebrity lifestyle.

I would like to invite @eveetim, @wuddi, and @entity01 to join me