Hello My Steemain Friends ,

Today I am writing about an interesting Steemit Engagement Challenge S29- W2: which is all time my favourite topic ""Thinking and Ideas!| Simple Solutions to Big Problems!” """ this amazing challenge organised by @ninapenda.

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The problem I'm discussing today is preventing young people from falling into "bad company"Because nowadays, it's crucial to pay close attention to children's activities. Every parent will agree with me on this. Those parents are very fortunate whose children have good company. Nowadays, parents need to be vigilant and constantly guide their children, and they also need to understand their children's mental state. Because when children transition from childhood to adolescence, many changes occur in their minds. So, every parent needs to become a friend to their children and talk to them.

Because you can't be with your children all the time; many evils exist in society. Company can be good or bad. We need to explain to our children that they must choose good company for themselves in society and avoid bad influences. Smoking, drinking, gambling, skipping classes, and getting into relationships at a young age, sometimes even crossing boundaries in those relationships – this is the reality of our society. We read about such incidents on social media every day, and when parents become too strict, children sometimes commit suicide. We must prevent such situations from arising.

Therefore, every parent needs to dedicate time to their children. They need to pay close attention. Children are given vehicles, and they drive two-wheelers like airplanes, leading to many accidents. So, we have to explain things to them. Don't be strict with your children; win them over with love and trust. Build a relationship from childhood so that your child doesn't hesitate to share even the smallest things with you. Parents need to instill confidence in their children, not fear, assuring them that "we are with you in every situation."

This solution will benefit both parents and children the most, and the entire family. Their future will improve, they will bring honor to their parents' name, and their future will be bright.** Parents will be able to contribute to a healthy society and fulfill their responsibilities. They will find peace of mind knowing that they have raised their children well and succeeded in guiding them onto the right path.**

This will instill in those children, when they become parents themselves, the same understanding of how to guide their children, gradually letting go of their hand as they grow. They will understand the importance of preparing their children for society from a young age, because society has both good and bad aspects.

Implementing this idea will inevitably present challenges. Children have their own social circles – friends, schoolmates – and when they go out, they will make demands, saying, "My friends are going on a picnic," or "They're having a party," or "Night outs are becoming common these days, so they're going on a night out." They'll want to do the same. In this situation, we need to explain to our children that they should distance themselves from such activities.

• You can't say yes to everything, and we also need to understand that if you say no every time, your child will become rebellious. Therefore, you need to strike a balance. If parents say yes to one or two things, children are usually prepared to hear no seven or eight times. But if you don't say yes even once, then the conflict begins.

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• Children need to understand the value of money, where it's appropriate to spend it and where it's not. They need to understand the limitations of their family's finances. Parents must explain to their children, not strictly but with love, how important their education is, for their family and for their own future.

• Sometimes children think, "I never get to go anywhere. My requests are always denied," because they have fun with their friends. Naturally, when children of the same age get together, they will have fun. But knowing where they are going and who their friends are is the biggest challenge. Dealing with this challenge, positively influencing the child's mind, and preventing them from developing negative thoughts towards their parents or home – maintaining that balance is the biggest challenge we face.

• Finally, this is what I think parents should tell their children. I tell my children, "Son, either have fun now and struggle for the rest of your life, or work hard for 5 to 6 years, forget about friends and socializing for a while, and then you'll enjoy life to the fullest."

It's a very simple idea, but it has a lot of
depth

I want to invite my friends to take part in this contest: , @paholags , @lirvic , @tasonya"

Thankyou 🙏

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