If you look at it, self-control is a small word, but it has a lot of meanings embedded in it. When you hear the word self-control, many meanings start running through your mind, i.e. controlling your emotions, controlling your anger, controlling your feelings. It means that whatever is going on inside you should not be visible on your face or in your actions.

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If we can find a solution to this in simple words, it is that when you are very angry, you should remain silent. Or if you like the person in front of you very much and you know that you cannot tell him your feelings, then you should remain silent there too. Or if you want to interact with someone in a way that your heart is not allowing you to do, then you should stop there. This is what is called self-control.

“How do you know someone that have self control ?.”

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I think your character is a mirror of your heart and whatever character you play is clearly reflected in your personality.You can guess whether the person sitting in front of you has self-control or not. He will not be easily swayed. He will show a very calm attitude towards everything, no matter how bad he feels about it, but he will always smile and answer what you say. The best way to guess is when two people are fighting and one person is showing a lot of anger while the other is also behaving and trying to calm him down. Then you can guess how much that person is living his life with self-control, and in my opinion, this is a great way to live life.

“Is self control an inborn behavior or it's learned? Support your answers with facts..”

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This is a question in which both things are equally possible. There are some people who are naturally addicted to this thing and they bring control with them as soon as they are born because the mother often says that my child gets very angry with him. But while the other one is quite calm and always patient, even if his toys are taken away from him or he is scolded, he shows a very calm disposition. But on the other hand, if you look at it, some people are very angry and cannot control their things , which is a natural behavior. But with time, they learn so much from life that they keep changing and then the things they are carrying around start suppressing them. Then they realize how their nature is harming them. Then they start letting go of things and move towards self-control.

“How far can you control yourself in the face of temptation and challenges?.”

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As we all know, everyone has challenges and many difficulties in their life and everyone has their own way of dealing with it. Some people handle it very responsibly and some people make a big fuss about it. But as far as I look at myself, if I talk about my early years, I could not have handled things the way I do today. Because I am now a woman in my 30s, I can understand things much better. Today, I can handle these challenges much better. Today, I have much better self-control. That is because I stopped expecting things from people and started controlling my own actions or emotions. I have seen that when you depend on others for your emotions or your things, other people do a lot of harm to you and when you feel that you are being harmed in front of them, you have to control your emotions in your heart. It is very important to keep your love, your feelings, to yourself. When you put your hopes on others, things become difficult for you and also for others.

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