Contest: "How I survived Difficult moment"
Assalam-o-Aliakum Friends.
So let's start.🍀
🍀.Share with us a difficult moment in your life you faced?
Human life is full of difficulties. When I read about this contest and the first question, I kept thinking for a long time about which difficulty I should highlight here because...life is tough every single day. The first difficulty that I remember now was that when my husband died, the biggest problem after that was that I had three daughters, no son, and no other man. Living alone with three girls became a huge challenge for me because you know, in the society you live in, if you have girls, then everyone's eyes are on you and your daughter.But there was a time when I had to prove myself as the best mother, so I tried to hide my daughters for devil people's, that is, I became a shield for my daughters so that I could protect them from the harsh eyes of the world, and that time was quite difficult for me.I used to try to keep my daughters out of the public eye. It's not that I wanted to keep them locked up, but these days, this time people's are cruel that rape cases are happening every day. Children come out but the children are never found. So I was quite worried because I only had my children left, so I put 100% of my effort into raising them.
🍀.How did you survive that moment? Tell us what you did or did not do
As I mentioned above, this did not mean that I had confined my daughter to the house and she was not allowed to go out.It wasn't like that at all. I just took a little precaution, that is, I told my daughters to go home before nightfall and you have to try your best to be together. So the important thing is that how I was seeing her need, I didn't see any fear in my heart. It was the same thing as us. I think every mother has it in her heart. So I didn't want my daughters to face my fear. So I just told them that there is no need to tell everyone that there is no man in our house and we all womens live together. Just keep things a little private so that your privacy is not disturbed. I told them to hide these things by saying this privacy and that's how we started living our lives. I saw that there is a big difference in my life from all this that I always stay safe. Nothing that I can't even imagine has happened to me.
🍀.What your advice for any one going through a difficult time right now?
There are many people like me who are facing difficulties in their lives and everyone will have different difficulties in their lives, maybe they will face bigger difficulties than me, but I will tell you this, life will always stand in front of you with a new difficulty every single day. All you have to remember is that you have courage and you should handle the situation. You should know where and how to move things wisely because only your mind can give you the right signal and can turn you on/off. If you depend on others or you think that someone,some day, this messiah will come and help us, then this will not happen. In my opinion, at the end you are your messiah and you are the only one who can save yourself. So always keep your mind open and keep your safety in mind and do not make any decision.
Curated By : @ memamun
Hello, friend. Your participation in the "How I Overcame a Difficult Time" contest was very interesting and provided me with valuable lessons. Your difficult time was the physical loss of your husband, which left you alone with three daughters. You instilled in them the courage and strength to face life's challenges in an all-female family. The secret to staying together has been not trusting bad company, but rather protecting your daughters and advising those going through difficult times to show bravery and an open mind to approach problems with wisdom and find solutions that benefit others.
Have a wonderful afternoon. Best of luck.