First of all, happy birthday!!
Let me share with you something that I learnt the hard way: sometimes we should leave aside that bad part of our ego that's willing to control and plan eveything that happens in our life and just relax, the universe has everything figured out for us, we just have to trust and believe. Enjoy your present situation as much as you can and everything will fold itself when it has to!
Hope you're enjoying your day to the fullest with your family!! Best wishes for this new year!! :)