Deal With Those Who Speak Ill!

It's sick, it definitely is if people speak ill about you behind your back I also wonder why they bother. Let's be fair if you can't stand someone why not say it straight into this person's face? It can't be that hard or? Many already practised this on the internet so they are skilled. Skilled in badmouthing, skilled in being a keyboard hero, skilled in gossiping, bullying and whatever more is needed to backstab. Right now there are two comment contests running. One you find at @steembetterlife and is about cheating. Cheating shows in many ways and we all agree it's not done (are we?) but nevertheless, the cheating goes on and no matter how you take it we all seem to like it.
You say you don't like cheating? If that's so, then why do you have a huge problem hearing the truth and saying it's not attentive, to be honest?

The other contest is also a comment contest and you find it in the new community Student & Steem here the topic discussed is being bullied. It feels like we all have been there or still are but at the same time we all are victims I wonder who is the bully. It sounds like a game we could play. Do you know who the bully is, the one who loves to push you off a cliff, gossips and gossips and loves the attention s/he receives from the sheep in the group?
If it comes to that contest (just leave a comment and share your honest answer for a change since you are online and most likely no one can find you anyway and even if you are a bully you will notice if you give some lame excuse there will always be people lifting and even cheering for you while the victim is ignored (again). Does this sound familiar to you?

How to deal with people who speak ill.

There's only one way as I experienced after many years and that is instead of hiding taking in your rightful place.
Stand up straight and don't hide. Show you are there and confront the person in the open among the listeners and say: How does it feel to be stupid, and have to deal with a low IQ 24/7? But hey, you are right, I am exactly that what you say and even worse. Don't think I will forgive you I will hunt you even long after you are dead! I am your worst nightmare and every time something happens to you or you feel the wind blow in your face you know it was me.

Next, you can turn around and walk out. People doing this are dumb and have a huge lack of self-esteem and they are too stupid to be saved. By the way, no religion says you have the plight to save those who love to jump in front of the TGV. It's an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. That is the only way to set boundaries.

Life is thought and no matter how you see it it is survival of the fittest.
As long as you don't change you will be bullied till the end of days. Indeed it stinks to be left on your own and loneliness is a killer but so is being bullied and being depressed to the extent you are ready to jump off a cliff or hang yourself.

Remember: No one needs another person to make him feel miserable! Being miserable is something we all are capable of making ourselves very well. So get out of that corner stand up straight and do what the ill person does! This is the only way to teach someone who isn't raised well a lesson and to break out of the circle you are in!
You say you are too scared to? Then it's time to get angry. Be mad, crazy and use that energy to stop the bully and take control back over your life!
This is the lesson you have to learn to improve your life and stop meeting the same monsters during your life.
If you like to know how? Have a look on the internet or watch some films for the needed inspiration.


I advise you to watch "The Glory"

The Glory (Korean: 더 글로리) is a South Korean revenge psychological thriller television series written by Kim Eun-sook and directed by Ahn Gil-ho for Netflix.
Part 1 was released on December 30, 2022, and Part 2 was released on March 10, 2023
Moon Dong-eun, a former victim of school violence, plans and seeks revenge on her bullies after taking up a job as a home room teacher at the elementary school of the bully leader's child (Ha Ye-sol).[5] Some scenes are based on a true event in 2006 when a group of middle schoolers from Cheongju, South Korea, extorted money from their classmate for about a month, repeatedly beating and burning her using objects in the process.
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This contest is hosted by @boylikegirl.club the contest is pinned.


I invite @jiva34 @jiya99 and @barol to tell how they stop a disgraceful person. Sorry, but hiding and being polite isn't the answer if your health is at stake.

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