( "Be careful what you talk about with other people, it could be that today he is your friend, or tomorrow is the opposite" )

in Steem Schools5 years ago

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Friends are someone or maybe some people that we allow or can know more about us. they can accept us as we are without needing to see the status we have. Whether it's a profession, position or one thing or another.

In making friends, we should not choose friends based on an artificial paradigm. For example, choosing to only want to be friends with those from the upper social class, or people who we really consider worthy of being friends. If we base our selection of friends on the basis of this, the essence of being friends becomes very questionable. It could be that we don't really like them.

Making friends should not be based on a career-seeking or social basis. True friendships come from people who may not benefit us in our careers. Instead, we benefit from genuine friendships. Without pretending. but here we are not discussing how to choose friends, but here we will discuss the signs or characteristics if we are experiencing or are in unhealthy friendships.

When we are teenagers, of course we have lots of friends, like to be surrounded by many people, happy to be involved in small talk which tends to be small talk, etc. could possibly be attributed to the quote "many friends many benefits". because from the scope or circle of friends, we can get a lot of information about lectures, work, romance, business opportunities, learning to live and much more. but those benefits or benefits will disappear if you are in a circle of friends who are not healthy, or now people are more acquainted with toxic friendships (toxic friend).

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Yes, Be careful what you talk and hear. Do you what you talk and hear, you become same way. So always be careful about what you hearing. What ever in your mind or what ever you think is comes out from your mouth and it makes you as it is in your mind. So always protect your mind. About hearing the garbage words like lie, fear words, useless news, bad spirit, about fighting ... etc these are all garbage. so keep yourself from all types of these thinks. Only listen what you want to get peace in your mind.