Greetings!

Steemian Buddies! i hope you all are enjoying very well and living a happy life. I am Awais Rasool from Pakistan. I am very fascinated to read this phrase that love yourself and that too with as much energy as a car can go to the moon and back. When you start loving yourself as much as you do, it is unlikely that you will have any self-doubt. But in today's fast-paced, busy life, it is rare to see someone love themselves to such an extent.

What are the doubts you have (can be personal or related to Steemit)???

Through this post I am also going to share some of my personal doubts with you.

• Excessive use of social media has put me in a cage whenever I get time I start using social media even I hate myself and start comparing my self and status with others. I feel like I will just continue to use social media and others will overtake me in life.
• I think I am very weak in public dealing and I also have stage phobia. It is difficult to convey one's own words to others according to one's mind.
• As I get older I feel that my personality is diminishing due to which mostly I tend to lose my confidence in front of people and avoid them lest they say that you are not as attractive as you used to be.
• I feel that I am not able to complete even the smallest task completely and properly. Many times I feel very irresponsible.

What can you do to overcome these doubts???

Followings are some steps which can be taken to overcome my above said doubts..

• Instead of using social media, I now prefer to sit with friends and enjoy what they have to say.
• Sitting in the company of people and friends who make me confident so that public dealings and stage phobia can be eliminated.
• Decreasing personality and looks with age is a natural process that can be recognized and made people own by making their good qualities their strength.
• Stopping the mind from wandering and focusing on the single task at hand can guarantee a complete and accurate execution of the work.

What makes you love yourself???

According to me, it is not possible to feel any feeling without the participation of another person. When other people say about me that you love yourself the most, you don't give priority to anyone else, it makes me feel like I love myself. Eating on time, keeping myself clean, self-care are some of the factors that make me feel that I love myself somewhere. A sense of humor that makes other people entertain also instills a sense of self-love.

What must you do to prioritize your happiness and well-being???

If the situation becomes difficult or I get stuck in a problem, then I am satisfied and happy, thinking that I have come out of that problem. Through it, the situation starts to get under control while it is not. Small tasks that have to be done for no reason, without doing which there will be no harm, and by saying only No for them I can avoid myself from those hectic works. For example, when I reach home tired from the office and am not in the mood to go on any kind of outing, but want to sleep a little late, then I forbid frivolous outings with my friends so that I can rest.

I am inviting for this engagement challenge my friends @numanfarooq , @numanbhutta and @adnanyasin

Author

@awais5