But there's a big difference between actual selfishness, and the practice of healthy self-care

You've nailed it! Selfishness and self-care. The difference is huge.

Self-care is all about replenishing yourself when you are running low on "fuel" Or should you I say, replenishing yourself when you are running low on steem. (•ิ‿•ิ)

Thank you for the visit and the engagement.
PS: The dogs love their new home