Tell your story#47 ( The Love That Came Too Quickly)

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What happened

Source

My friend ended her three-year relationship in February this year because her boyfriend was doing a lot of things she wasn’t comfortable with. She tried to talk things through with him and have an honest conversation, but he wasn’t willing to communicate. So she decided to end the relationship and promised herself not to get into another one anytime soon.

But something unexpected happened just a week after the breakup. There was this guy who had been asking her out for a long time, but she always said no because she had a boyfriend and didn’t believe in double dating. However, when her relationship started having problems, she began giving this guy a little of her time. Without even realizing it, she started to fall in love with him.

So when he asked her out again a week after her breakup, she accepted. Even though she had promised not to enter another relationship so soon, she doesn't know what really pushed her to say yes. But the truth is, she genuinely loves him.

Everything was going really well between them until last week, when the guy suddenly changed. He stopped calling and also ignores her calls. It's not like they had a fight or misunderstanding, so she’s confused about why he's acting this way.

The only thing he told her was that he would explain what’s going on when the time is right. But my friend is an overthinker, and the situation is really affecting her emotionally. The love she has for him is slowly fading, and she doesn't know what to do.

What you have learned from it

This particular story about my friend experience has really thought me alot of things. Below are few things I have learned from the story;

I have learned that it is risky to Jump into a new relationship without healing from the previous one can leave you emotionally vulnerable.

I have equally learned that If someone can’t talk to you when things get tough, it’s a red flag because, true love requires honest and open communication.

And lastly, I have learned never to ignore red flags in relationship. Trusting of one's instincts is paramound. And Sudden changes in behavior should not just be overlooked.

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