RE: Out-Of-The-Box: Last Chat On Your Deathbed
Are you sure it is typical for muslims to be prepared for death? The only ones I know are the theorists wearing bomb vests with pride with the idea to be rewarded with virgins. I don't believe in that god.
People are not used to talk about death and all they say is: I am shocked or "it is too early"
Early? No one is given the quarantee to grow old and what is the point!
If life, this life is a journey to gather experiences to level up, all those experiences life offers, regret has no place in it since we are who we are and what we did we did for a reason. Good, wrong, bad who decides? The judge in the end will be you and how you judge depends on how you are raised, the sick to the bone making indoctrination or the ability to shake it off and live in the spurit of freedom of choice.
The war you read about is what is said true? Do you have the whole picture of those 12 years before. Is genocide the solution, are all those labs of Fauci in the US, Ukraine and China? We see the world through the glasses we wear and what makes us comfortable about us.
A regret? The only one I can think of is believing too long what is said, told, preached written although as a 5 year old I alreasy questioned. Still, the imprented ideas, the brainwashing, propaganda? I feel a part of shame even though I don't buy it and fall for it.
Your husband might not be interested, and nor are my children but they know I will die and leave them. We talk about this from the day they are born and they are raised to support another (not by sacrificing themselves) since these are the only family/friends they have and to stand on own feet and be free of dogmas. Thetraces and footprints I leave will help them if they need it. If not I will give it to someone who will or simply set it at fire with the body.
Death is just about leaving an old coat behind and hop on the train to the next destination while I stay and am with the one who completes me, twin soul, you can name it how you like it.
I wrote a will long ago, kept diaries and took thousands of photos for my children. I told them stories, wrote them and they read what I write. A short or long life? What is time? The soul has no knowledge of the clock humans live by.
The good ones go first? Can be or there was nothing to learn or the future would have been too hard. Mistakes are only mistakes if you feel that way but even if it's not said it is. Everything leads to something, there's no button needed to edit.
The bed is free and so are you.
I am proud of what you achieved and you touched my heart with your words filled of love and humour. I hope you will always have joke and love at your side.
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I don't know about other muslims, because we can have different views and perspectives too. But for me, I was taught about that, so the first thing to prepare death is keep yourself clean, no debt, no unfulfilled promises. Later, I learnt that it's the safe way to leave without any burden to family and community. No matter how rich or smart we are, we can't bury ourselves (well, you can seek for a particular service for that). About terrorist, they have a different perspective, so they have different way actualized the verse the read in our Holy book, Al Quran. I die every day in my sleep even though people can still feel my breath, but my soul is nowhere to be find by them.
I respect your beliefs and opinion, but I refuse to compare or having a debate about that, because my knowledge only enough for myself. there's a verse that became my guidance to live my life in this world.
Verse about multiculturism. I respect all human beings no matter who they are, where they come from, because we can't be born from tree or stone. Since we're all human, so why not respect each other. Alright, what about the criminals? they are human too and do you respect them too? tbh, I don't hate them for being a human, but I hate them because they choose to be a criminal.
Everyone is born as unique entity, so they can learn and think about it freely. Because one of the most important rights in any human is called Free Will.
Only the good die young, Billy Joel's popularized the phrase in his song. But it was an ancient phrase, I found this but I'm not sure about it myself, although I love history. I can't read everything. My memory is limited to the most important things related to my life, my family, my friends, my communities and several topics only.
Note: you're always free to doubt or questioning anything that you don't buy it. I believe that you really know what you are and what you have to do. Different perspectives or different beliefs won't stop us from hanging out or having fun together. I wrote something from my views and understanding, while you wrote in yours and there's no issues about that IMHO. This ecosystem is about voicing our mind anyway.
Thank you Kitty, I love you as always
Yes, this is exactly what I meant (and said many times before) certain topics should not be discussed: politics, football and religion.
Thanks for the links and sharing your thought I have a look at them later when I have time to let it sink.
A lovely day dear friend.