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RE: Does What We Wear Influence How Others Behave?

in CCC • 28 days ago

Hello @hive-166850,

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and drop such a well-thought-out comment. I truly appreciate the effort you put into sharing your perspective. You gave me a lot to think about, especially regarding climate, history, and Vitamin D!

You made a very valid point about how our perception of "indecent" depends on where we are raised. The postman shorts debate is a perfect example—what is practical and acceptable in one era or workplace might be frowned upon in another. I completely agree that clothing is primarily for weather protection. In fact, I mentioned the desert heat myself!

However, I want to gently push back on your Adam and Eve reference. Yes, they were nudists, but let's remember that their nakedness existed in a state of innocence without sin or evil intent. The moment their hearts changed, they covered themselves. So, to me, that story actually reinforces my point: it's the condition of the heart that dictates the need for modesty, not the other way around.

You also mentioned that in places where half-nakedness is normal, people become sexually disinterested, whereas in places where it's forbidden, excessive sexual behavior occurs. That is an interesting sociological take, and I don't completely disagree! There is definitely an element of "forbidden fruit" psychology. But I would argue that even in beach towns and tropical cultures where revealing clothing is normal, harassment and assault still happen every single day. If total exposure killed bad intentions, we wouldn't have these issues in hot climates, yet we do. That tells me the problem lies deeper than the fabric—or lack thereof.

I really loved your closing statement: "Anyone who can’t keep their hands to themselves and shifts the blame onto women is the problem themselves and badly raised." On that, my friend, we are 100% in agreement! That is exactly the accountability I was calling for in my post. Whether we wear thick coats or thin wrappers, the hand that harms belongs to the one who chooses to stretch it out.

Thank you again for this healthy debate. You truly expanded the conversation for me.

My pen still speaks for me—and today, it's speaking back to you with gratitude.